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WORKBOOK
ANNIHILATION
METHOD
INTRODUGTION
l'm notgoingto tellyoutoo muchaboutmy
Thankyouall for readingandwatching.
background,
becauseit'sall in my book.What I will tell you is that I wentfrom the
world'sworstAFC to the world'sgreatestpickupartistin abouttwo years.And I believe
go aboutit right.
cando that...ifthey
thatanyonelistening
So I'mgoingto teachyou howto go aboutit right.
Pleasenotethat I haveleft plentyof spaceon eachpageafter€ach lesson,so thatyou
maytake notesand writedownroutinesand pointersfromthe DVDS.
Let me tell you all why I'mdoingthis. lt's becauseI spenttwo yearsin this communityof
pickupartists.And lwatchedsomepeoplerapidlyimproveand othersgo nowhere,
everypickupartist,everystudent,and every
spinningtheirwheels.I interviewed
woman.I researched
this all the time.And I learnedsomething:mostof the peopleout
thereare learningthis wrong.They'reonly learningto exerciseone muscle.lt's like
goingto the gym andjust doingcurls.Sure,you'llbe ableto beatanyoneat armwrestling,but you'regoingto looklikea freak.
I'mgoingto startout by givingyou sometheory,then I'mgoingto giveyou some
practicaltools.
WhenI started,all lwantedwerethe routinesand lines;nowthe theory
and overalltruthsand guidanceare what I crave.So you'reall goingto get DVDSso you
can hearthis whenyou'rereadyfor it...andso you can practiceand hearthe proper
delivervof the routines.
PART I
A lot of you haveheardof the AnnihilationMethod.I calledit the Annihilationl\ilethod
becauseI wantto builda newyou thatwill annihilateall competitors.
Thetwo biggest
clich6sof datingadviceare:
- Just be yourself...shouldbe yourbestself
And
-
Be confident...whichis impossible
withoutsuccess.Successbreedsconfidence.
going
We're
to learnhowto havesuccess.
Simpleformula:be interestingand interested...
be confidentand competent.
The AnnihilationMethodis a workoutprogramfor everysinglemusclethat is you. I want
you firingon everysinglecylinder.Whenyou are meetinga woman- just likewhen
you'regoingfor a job interviewor at a familyreunionor tryingto get upgradedto first
classon an airline- eveMhingcounts.
It hasthreeelements:who you are,whatyou do, and whenand howyou do it.
Forwho you are thereare the L.A.S.V.E.G.A.S.traitsof a desirableman,for whatyou
do the five sequentialsteps,and for whenyou do it, the basicprinciplesof calibration.
This is ALL you everneedto know.
There'sa veryfamouswomanwho has a datingtheory.She callsit the five-pronged
theoryof dating.You haveto measureyourselfin termsof:
r
.
.
.
.
.
LOOKS
Money
Intelligence
Personality
Character
Statusand Prestige
You haveto measureyourpointsin thesecategoriesagainstthoseof a woman,and if
lhey matchyou'resuitedto eachother,she says.And she tellsguysnot to try for girls
^,,t ^f thair la.^,,a
Guesswhat?This is a loadof horseshit.You don'tneedlooks,money,or any of that. I
knowbecauseI had neitherwhen I startedthis thing.Looksand moneyare symbolsof
deeperthingsthatwomenare lookingfor. And all of thosedeeperthingsare withinthe
graspof anyone.This is the AnnihilationMethod:to giveyou all of thosequalitiesand
giveyou a roadmapto acquirethemthat requiresnothingbut learningand practice.
PART II
let'sdiscusshowto learn.
Beforewe get to the annihilation,
WhatSeparatesa ChumpFroma Champ?\/vhydo somepeoplelearnquicklywhile
otherslanguish?
1. Are you in thefieldor an internet
andseminarjunkie?
2. Smallchunkknowledge,
anddealwithchallenges
as theyarise.Workout
in
real
life
first,
and
then
in
head.
Not
the otherwav around.
Droblems
vour
incompetence
to unconscious
competence
3. Understanding
the unconscious
model.
4. Willingness
to go throughthe painperiodand leavethe comfortzone.
Schwarzenegger:
This lasttwo or threeor fourrepetitions,that'swhatmakesthe
musclesgrow. That'swhat dividesone frcm a championand one from not being
a champion.lf you can go throughthe pain period, you make it to be a champion.
lf you can't go throughit, forget it. And that's what most people lack: having the
guts- the guts to go in andjust say... "l don'tcare whathappens."I haveno fear
of faintingin the gym... I threw up many times when I was workingout. But it
doesn'tmafter,becauseit'sall wofthit.
usefulfromuselesslearning.
5. Separating
6. Willingto test ideasevenif theydon'tseemlogical.
7. Understanding
the principles
behindthe ideaswhentheyworkfor you.
8. Learningfrom mistakes,and knowingthat nothing'simpossible.Gettingrid of
limitingbeliefs.
9. Who do you blame?lt's neverher fault.lt's alwaysyours.Willingnessto examine
yourselfandtake criticismwithouttakingit personally.
10.Push it twentypercentfurtherthanyourknowledge..
.failuresare learning
lessons.
11.Lookat the questionsyou'reaskingto see if you'reon the rightcourse.Are they
helpingor aretheyneurotic?
12.Hangout with someonebetterthanyou. Earntheirtrustand mentorshipby being
promising
butnon-threatening.
13.lsyourratioof effortto resultsincreasing?
lf not,youmustexaminewhatyou're
doing,becauseyou'redoingit wrong.
o
PART III
To get better,you needa wingor a groupof wingswho you trust.And bothof you need
to be honestwith eachother.Tell eachotherthingsyourfriendsneverwould.lf you
and subjective,you will do
don'ttake it personallyand understandthat it's constructive
FIRSTIMPRESSION
of you,and
well.lt'simportant
to ask,whenpossible,
someone's
havethembe unafraidto be critical.Thefeedbackis important.
EXERCISE:
Question1: \/y'hvdo vou wantto learnthis?
o
Question2: Ask yourselfagain:\/Vhyare you reallywatchingthis program?
Question3; Now,ignorethe aboveanswers,and reachdeepintoand honest
placeand reallyput it downon paperonceand for ali: VVhyare you doingthis?
EXERCISE:
1. Describehowyou appearto othersin a simplesentenceor two.
2. Drawa simpleportraitof yourselfnow.
3. Now,describehowyou'dliketo appearin a yearfrom now in a simple
sentenceor Iwo.
4. Drawa simpleportraitof yourselfa yearfromnow.
SAVEYOURANSWERS
TO QUESTIONS
THREEAND FOUR;REFERTO
T H E MO F T E N .U. .N T I LY O UB E C O M E T H E M .
Eachof the belowis rankedfrom one to five,with averagebeingone andfive being
reservedfor beingin the top one percentin the wodd.Note;lf you do not possessthis
quality,you get ZEROpoints;onlygiveyourselfa pointif you are AVERAGEOR
ABOVE.
In general,you needsix pointsfor a low qualitywoman,ten pointsfor an average
woman,eighteen
for a highqualitywoman.
WHOYOUARE
You wantto be LAS VEGAS
We will go intothis in depthlater,and giveyou eachof thesequalities,butfor starters
theseare your long-rangegoals.Theyare notjust innergamebut yourend game.Very
simpleto say and learn,very complicated
to do. Eachof thesestepshas manysubbriefly
steps.but we will outlinethem
LOOKS:Well-groomed
and standingout. Belongingto a tribethat shewantsto be part
of, or at leastvisit.
femalepanel,hairperson,clothesshopping
SOLUTION:
Stylist,
ADAPTABILITY:
thisis wherehumorand intelligence
comein.(lt'swhy uptightguys
for peerapproval.
don'tget laid.)lt's her beingableto introduceyou to her friends/family
It'swhereadventurousness,
spontaneity,
independence,
risk{aking,and the abilityto
handlenew situations.Excitingto be around,in the moment.lt's beingableto be fun in
a club,mannered
withherfamily,anda totaljerkwithyourmalefriends.Quote:"The
soeciesthat doesnot adaDtis doomedto die."
SOLUTION:
Travel.Culturalknowledge.
Exposure
to newthingsand unfamiliar
situations.
STRENGTH:
Definednotas physical
strength,
butthe abilityto protecther.Thjsis done
traditionally
througheithermoneyor muscle,butthroughdecisiveness,
non-wussiness,
usefulpractical
knowledge,
an abilityto "takecareof things,"
takingcharge,
assertiveness,
livingin your own reality,and the abilityto makeher feel safe.Also moral
strengthand values(goodor bad but strong)that makeher feel safetyand comfort.
Loyalty.
SOLUTION:Becomeself-correcting
in your responsepatterns.
You are constantlybeingtestedfor your abilityto do this for a chick.So here'sa small
checklist:
'1. Makedecisions.
Don'task herwhatshewants,thoughit'sokayto findouther
preferences.
2. Don'tchangeyouropinionbasedon whatshethinksin orderto pleaseheror get
rapport.lt's onlyokayto changethemif she persuadesyou logically.
3. Knowyourenvironment.
Knowhowto getplaces,whatto do,what'scool.
4. Be an effectivecommunicator,
ableto get others(waiters,door-people,
taxi
drivers)to respond.
5 . Be seenas the leaderof a groupand othermen.
6 . Haverules.
7 . StoMelling:aboutprotectinga girlfriendfrom a threatcauseit'syour nature,
aboutejectingsomeonefromyour lifefor an infractionbecauseyou havea "zero
policy."
tolerance
8 . In situations
wherepeopleareconfused
or indecisive,
takecharge.
L Nottoleratingbad behaviorfrom her or lettingher manipulateher likeshe does
othermenor her father.
10.StoMelling
techniques.
Wearinga shoulder
holster.
I
VALUE:Standingout. Whatmakesyou differentthan all the otherguysshe should
"womenwantto
meet...
beinginteresting,
beingexcellent...
entertaining..
.chickcrack...
"being
learnfrommen"...
an authority
overherworld"...leader
of men.Alsoincludes
externalvalue:socialproof,leaderof yourgroup,beingseenas attractiveto others.
SOLUTION:
Learning
DHVroutines,
learning
to playsocialprooflikean
instrument,
makingsureshe'sbendingto meetyou on your realityand notevice
versa.
connecting,
havinga qualitythat
El\i]OTIONAL
CONNECTION:
Chemistry,
emotional
makesherfeelemotionally
excitedandfocusedaroundyou.Findingyourselflaughing
Canalsoincludeemotional
together
or sayingthingsat the sametime.Commonalities.
qualities
havinga tenderside.Confessing
likebeingcompassionate,
caring,sensitivity,
mutualdeepsecretsyou'venevertold anyonebefore.
story,NLP,"metoo"tactics,lettingher
SOLUTION:Style'sEV,vulnerability
Drotecr
GOALS:This is not definedby whatyou do, but by whatyou'recapableof doing.
just a clearpathtowardsit. Goals.A dream.Hungerfor life.
Successisn'tnecessary,
just
And not
ambitionbut potential.Womenas A&R scouts.Possiblycreativity.Stability.
SOLUTION:ldentifi/your identitytoday,whereyou wantto be five yearsfrom
now,howyou'regoingto get there.
AUTHENTIC|ry:This meansthat who you presentyourselfto be on the outsidemust
be the sameas who you are on the inside.lt's a personwho is happywith and likes
himself.However,real life has contradictions,
and that'sokay.lt's alsoacceptingyour
imperfections
becausethey makeyou human,.And havinga dualityor a contradiction
or complications
makeyou morecompellingand richas a peBon.
And it'sthe
SOLUTION:
Thisis the laststep.lt'strueinnergame.lt'smastery.
mostattractiveof all thesequalities.
whichis highstatusbehavior(cockyfunny,nonSELF-WORTH:
Confldence,
neediness).Not beingafraidto take up spacein the worldor someoneelse'stime."l
just benchpressedthe world."Senseof worthiness.Lackof desperation.
Having
opinionsand stickingto them,evenif theyconflictwith hers,but at the sametime not
beingafraidto admityou'rewrongif you are.
SOLUTION:Success.Affirmations.
Self-correcting
bodylanguageand frame
control.
EXERCISE:
1. Rankyourselfin pointson LasVegas.
2. lf possible,ratea wingor two and havethemrateyou.(Noticewhereyour
opinionof yourselfdiffersfromtheirs.).
3. Wheredo you needto do the mostwork on yourself?
YOURSELF'
NOTE:KEEPTHISAND,AS YOUGETlN THEFIELDAND IMPROVE
RE-MTE YOURSELFEVERYMONTH.
PART IV
WHATYOU DO
Simplemodel:
'
.
.
.
OPen
Demonstrate
Value
Createan EmotionalConnection
Createa PhysicalConnection
Fullmodel:
PARTONE:GETTINGINTOTHEGROUP
STEPONE
OPENER
Do imDrovised
or cannedooener
Rootthe ODener
Giveyourselfa time constraint("1can onlystayfor a minutebecausel'm with my friends
overthere")
Bodylanguageas if you'reaboutto leave
(energylevelequalto or
Conveypersonality,
smile,but don'tbe over-enthusiastic
higherthanthe group)
STEPTWO (youcan alsofractionateopenerto do this)
BREAKINTOTHEIRWORLD
Conveyactivedisinterest
Bestfriendtest
Makeperceptiveor teasingcommentsaboutthem
Insertchallenges
PARTTWOiMAKINGTHEI\4WANTTO KEEPYOU
STEPTHREE
DEMONSTRATE
VALUE
gimmick,
Use
magic,psychicroutine,
humor,game,whatever
STEPFOUR
CALIBRATION
WEIGHPOINT
Takeaway
Option1:
or falsetakeaway
Option2: Jointhe group,mid-storyor routine,but againgiveyourselftime constraint
Option3: Stayin group
Option4: Pawnfor anothergroup
PART THREETCONNECTING
WITHHER
STEPFOUR
BUILDMPPORT
lsolateit possible,physicallyor verbally
Qualify
ElicitValues
FindCommonalities
LetHerShare
STEPFIVE
CLOSE
OPTIONONE:#close
OPTIONTWO:lsolatetarget,phaseshifvseduce,and *close
OPTIONTHREE:Instantdate.Stayin group(or returnto group)so that you end the
nightwith them.Takegroupelsewhere.Try to get to target'shouse,or get her to your
house
PART V
Whenand How You Do lt
Thisis Calibration,
butskewedin the"it'salwayson"direction
whatto do next,
It'saboutreadingthedynamicof thegroupor thewomenandknowing
even if it'ssomethingI'veneverdonebefore.
lf a womancomesup to you in the bar,rubsyour chest,and saysyou'recute,whatdo
youdo?An opinionopenerwillboreher;a DHVis unnecessary.
Yougo rightto the last
step.lt's okayto openwiththat if that'swhereshe'sat in her process.
Whenyou get goodat the routinesin the abovestep,you can notworryaboutyou're
sayingand startwatchingyour bodylanguageand attitudeand how it affectsthem.
Experiment
with standingtoo closeto a womanand seeinghowshe reacts;too far
on at heror at an angle.
away.leaningin,notleaningin.Lookingstraight
All thesethingswill affecther behavior.
Yourpositivebodylanguageshouldbe a rewardfor HERgoodbehavior.
Now unlikethe stepsabove,mostof the calibrationwe'regoingto learnin the field.
However,hereare a few exercisesto startthinkingabout.
To me, calibrationis the key to everything.However,it can alsobe a trap.If you overcalibrate,you worrytoo muchand respondto smallsignsthat don'tmatter.So go in with
the attitudethat "it'salwayson" and "eveMhingshe doesis an ioi,"yet at the sametime
be consciousto oive her whatshe needs.
First,you'rebasicallylookingfor threeresponses:
.
.
.
Positive- greenlight- go foMard
Neutral- yellowlight - proceedwith caution
Negative- red light - stopwhatyou'redoing
Mostoftenwe'regoingto be dealingwith yellowlights:
lf she needsyou to havemorevalue:
.
.
.
(through
Showdisinterest
wordsor bodylanguage)
Negandtease
DHVsomeoneelse
lf she needsmoreattraction:
.
.
.
.
Push-pull
plotline
Jealousy
Becomethesourceof hervalidation
Arousaltalk
lf she needstrust:
.
.
.
.
Listenand be interested
Positive
bodylanguage
SincerelOls/SOls
Qualification
Style'sEV
lf she needsto be morecomfortable
.
.
.
Time constraint
SocialProof
Win over herfriends
You goal is to do what it takesto get the greenlight.However,if you stayat a green
lightto long,it can turnyellow.So you needto figureout what'sat the nextintersection.
So the realsecondgoal of calibrationis: Figuringout whereshe'sat in the processand
whereshe needsto be takennext.
The nextstepof calibrationis figuringoutwho she is:
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
Whatpersonality
type she is?
Doesshe havehighor low self-esteem?
Howsexuallyopenor reservedshe is?
Whather self-imageis?
Whatshe doesfor work?
ls shean older/young
sibling,closeto mom/dad?
ls shea physical,
kinesthetic,
or intellectual
type?
Whatare herneeds?
Whereis shein lifeandwhatis shelookingfor?
All thesethingswill helptell you howto proceedand whatto use.
Thereare no rules,onlyguidelines.
Somewomenloveto be coldread;they'llstartyourlocalfan club if you do it well.
Othersbristlewhenyou startto do it andwill startconfrontingyou about"whatgivesyou
the rightto say thosethingsaboutsomeoneyou don'tevenknow?"
You haveto knowwhento cut the thread(becauseit'sa bad one leadingto a bad
place)andmoveon to something
else.
So thequestionis: Howdo you learncalibration?
The answeris: get feedbackon yourthoughts
A goodway to practicecalibration,
and it'sa fun thingto do on a dateas well, is to
choosetwo peopleelsewherein the room.Thenguesswhattheirstoryis, whattheir
relationship
is, whatthey do for work.Thenask themand find out. lt makesa good
openertoo.(Justaskthemin a non-judgmental
wayandoutof genuinecuriosity
and
you'llbe okay.)
Try that alsoon dates:ask her if she'shad an oldersister/younger
brother/whatever,
if
shewas closerto her mother/father,
if shewas popular/unpopular
at school.Make
guessesfirst,then get the feedback.Onceyou learn,you'llbe phenomenalin the field.
Peoplewillthinkyou'rea psychic.
PART VI
Okay,let'sget downto the fun stuff.
with
EXERCISE:
Beforeyou readthis,writedownwhatyou say to starta conversation
a womanyou'vejust seenacrossa room?
Note:lf you don't havean answer,youwill shortly.lf you havean answer,compareit to
thetechniques
belowwhenfinished.
Okay,let'sget downto the rulesof opening.Whatl'm goingto teachyou is notjust the
openersbut alsothe structurebehindthemso you can comeup with yourown.
Also,this is how I do it. lt's my formulabrokendownstepby step.Use it as a guideline,
butultimately
do whatworksfor you.
Generalprinciples
of opening:
1. Clubis a performance,
fromthe momentyouwalkin. Neverbe caughtlooking
aroundandnothavingfun.
2. Threesecondrule.
smiling,positive
non-needy
energy)
3. Equalor higherenergylevel(includes
4. Passingby,aboutto leavebodylanguage
question:
why areyouaskingusthis?)
5. Rootyouropener(answerthe
and,if the music'stoo loudor she's
6. Don'tleanin or hover.Standup straight
seated,talklouder.
7. Time constraint(answerthe question:howlongare you goingto hangaround?)
8. Neutralentertainingopener:don'twastequestionson yourfriends,ask them
and
outside;
theyshouldcomefroma placeof genuineCURIOSITY
you
get
Wth C & S and a littlecharm,
will never rejected.
SPONTANEITY.
9. Neverbeginwith a question(or please,excuseme, l'm sorry)
10.Focuson the wholegroup,and makesurethey'realwaysattentiveand involved
in the interaction.
11.Youshouldbe leading/dominant,
buthookthemwithinteractivity
activedisinterest(througha neg or
12.If she is oftenhit on, demonstrate
disoualification)
13.Toss"pebbles"to ampfun/excitement.
Note:neverdelivera pebbleexpectinga
reactton.
14.Rememberthat the linesdon'tmatter.They'rejust excusesto keepyour mouth
movingwhileyoudisplayyourpersonality.
15.lf it'stwo hotwomen.Dawn.
mentionan ex girlfriend
at some
16.lf focusing
on guys(ESPwhenPeacocking),
pointso they knowyou'restraight.
Opinion Openers:Choosea favoritefrom the openersbelow,the full text and proper
form of whichis includedin the DVDSand CDs.
Don'twastequestionson friendsor the internet...use
themesthat provokediscuss:on,
fascination,
or laughter...
.
.
.
.
.
.
'
JealousGirlfriend
80,sDogs
DentalFloss
Two-PartKissODener
CologneOpener
FiveOceans
Spells
Peopleoftenworryaboutgettingcaughlwith opinionopeners.That'swhy I'mgoingto
giveyou exclusivelyNEWcategoriesof openers.I madeup opinionopeners,and as
they startedto becomewidespread,l've heldthesein reserve.I am goingto sharethem
with you now.lt is vitalthat you keepthis TOP SECRET.
New category of openers:Oh my Godopeners
"Ohmy God,didyoujustseethat..."
Structure:
"Oh
Or
my God,youlookjust like..."
Attitude:
Spontaneous
excitement/surprise.
.
.
.
SteDhanieRoss
SisterNora
GirlFiSht
To opena guy in group:
1. Oh my god:Wheredidyougetthatshirtfrom?
(Askwheretheygot the shoes/shirt
theywerewearing,becauseyou usedto
girl
wear it whenshe leftyour house,and you neversaw it
haveit, butyou let a
again.And you wantanother.You shouldbuytwo of everyitemof clothingyou
own.)
2. Oh my god,you havethe exactsameshoesthat my littlesistermademe shop
for for six hours.And I betyou got the last pair,didn'tyou?
3. Hey,do you work at The Standard(orwherever)?
HB: "No"
PUA: "wellyou lookjust likesomeonewho'sa newwailressat the bar and I
didn'twan to be rudeby not sayinghi herenow"
She'llsay Nay,I don'tworktheresorry!
Thenyou can go into"Ah so whatdo you do then?"
4. Oh my god,lookat thatgirls'hairlDo youthinkshe'shidinga gunin it, or a small
hair'sfine.
child?DidI justsaythatoutloud?Wasthatrude?Don'tworry...your
(Rolleyesjokingly)
if caught,say,"Omg,my friendwrotethat book.We werearguing
Troubleshooting:
aboutwhetherthat stuff reallyworked."
Theirresponses
willtellyouwhetheryou'redoingit or not.
CALIBRATION:
pickup
line,
it
doesn't
appearspontaneous.
Or youdidn'tdisqualify.
lf theyask if it'sa
andwantto leave,you didn'tdo time constraintor camein too
lf they get uncomfortable
directwithBL.
lf they ask if you'retakinga survey,you didn'troot.
a
Part Vll
After the opener:
1. Rockas if you'reaboutto leave.
2. Ask as an afterthought
"Howdo you all knoweachother"(credit:Mystery)to
determine
the relationshiDs.
fishinglinetheory
3. Discuss
4. Hookthemwith an observation
that leadsto a DHV,lVD,etc.
5. lf they are seated,sit downbut with atime constraint.lfthey are standingand
you'rein an outsideposition,
lockin.
6. DHV if necessaryto hookset
7. Oversellyourfriendsto makewing entrance/merging
easier.
L Don'tjumpthroughhoops,passshittests
Wing rules:
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
Enterwhenthe set it on a high(ona low,you'lllosethem)
Entrance
line:Hey,wereyoujusttalkingaboutthe_.
introand/orstory
Pre-prepared
accomplishment
Don'ttellhimltoldyou;he doesn'tlikepeopleusinghimfor
Addfalsemodesty:
that.
Wingdoesn'tDHV,but is goodnatured,positiveenergy,fun storytelling.
and,duringisolation,
visitsonlybrieflyfor socialproof.
Wingaidsin isolation
Wingdoesnot hit on anyonein set untilhe'ssurewho the personwho opened
the set'stargetis.
Developfingersignalingsystem(forinterestor for names)
Alwayspaycloseattentionto whatyourwingsays,laughand drawthe groupinto
stories("Ohmy god,you haveto hearthisl")
PEBBLES/Role-Playing/Push-Pull
oe
u l le n o u g yh e t .
I c a n 'tte l ly o u . . . l d o n ' t k n o w yw
You'refired.
Noteto self:do notdatethisgirl.
You guysareawesome.
You'rejusl liketheView.(Whenthey'regivingopinions
on an oDener.)
5. Aftershe sayswhereshe'sfromor wentto school,ask,"Doyou knowSarah"?
(Addif youwant"thin,blackhair,oliveskin")Then,aftershestruggles
to think,
sayyoujustmadeit up.
6. That'sit.We'rebreaking
up.You cankeepthedog.
7. I wantto takethat partof you rightthere(a pinchof fat, an eyelid,whatever)and
putit on rice,andeat it.
L Wait untilthey say somethingthat can be perceivedas a negativetraitabout
them,andthensay,as youpretendlikeyou'rewritingon yourhand,"Noteto self:
Do notdatethisgirl."
9. Her: I haveto tellyousomething...
You: You'repregnant
10.Whenshe mentionsa townshe'sfrom or a movieshe lovesor a televisionshow
or whatever,say,"Neverheardof it." Saidreallystraightand dry,with eye
contact.Then,afrerpausingfor a few sections,breakintoa smilelettingher
knowyou'rekidding.
11.Hiringfor doublethesalarytease
12.Thisrelationship
is notworkingout.
13.Hey,ljust flirta lot;I don'tputout.
'14.Use
shockintriguehookslike"l havea confession
to make"(l needto go the
gay)
bathroom/
| needanotherdrinldl'm
15.Let'stakethisslow...I don'twantto gethurt
16.Checkthisgirlout.She'samazing,
andso brightandfunny.Wouldyoubelieve
she'sneverhad a boyfriend?
17.Getengaged,
thenbreakup.Etc.
18.Tellher you'releavingherforaricholderwomanwhowillpayallyourbillsand
take careof you.
"We'retalkingguytalkhere.Couldyou leaveus alone
19.Do MINITAKEAWAYS.
pull
for a moment."
Then
herback."Waitrightthere.lvlyfriendswantme.""l'm
talkingto yourfriendrightnow.Geez."Don'tbe afraidto turn your backon her,
and KNOWthatshewon'tgo away.
20.Okay,youghlshavetakenup enoughofmytime.I haveotherpeopleto keep
company.
21.Whenshe'stalking,say"whatever."
Or drylysay,"Andyourpointis..."
point
you
22.Put her on a
systemwhere
subtractand add points.Startchargingher
moneyforthingsandkeepa tab.
1.
2.
3.
4.
EXERCISE:
STOPI
Stopwatchingthe DVDSand goingthroughthe workbookRIGHTNOW.
Go outtonight,or as soonas possible,
and PRACTICE
THEOPENERS
AND
APPROACH
STRATEGIES
aboveBEFOREcontinuing.
Usethis pageto writedownyour:
FieldReports
StickingPoints
Questions
Notesand AffirmationsFor Self-lmprovement
Thereare only 375 of you. lf there is a demandfor it, we will create an Annihilation
Methodforum ONLY FOR YOU,so that we can all discussyour lessong expenences,
and thoughts,and give you feedbackas you wotk through this course.
PART VIII
You'velearnedhowto chasewomen,now it'stimeto learnhowto get themchasing
you.
This is donethroughtechniquesgatheredfrom manyof the top PUASin the game
(Mystery,DavidD, Swinggcat,myself,etc).
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Pebbles
Negs
LASVEGASattitude
DHVS
Challenges
Push-Pull
Hardcore
Disqualification
Cat StringTheory
MakeHERfeellikesheis winningYOUover
Keepa runninglist of linesand responses
Learnhowto push-puliwith BodyLanguage
Examples:
1 . Makea positive
SOItypecomment,
thenwithdraw
with"l don'tknowyouwell
enoughthough"or "toobadyou'renotmy type"or "butI don'tthinkI cantrust
you"or anyof the pebblesbelow.
Keepher reelingwith a constantstreamof "go away...comehere"commentsand
gestures
3 . Afterhittingthe hookpoint,do a miniverbaltakeawayto get themto chaseyou.
Tryto setthemup withsomeoneelseor tellthemyoucan'ttalkto heranymore
or she'sbadnews.
"Ohmy god,I alwaysfallfor
of opposing
Quicksuccession
comments...
southerners...l
hateyou....actually,
let'sgetmarried...right
now...that's
it, l'm
you...that's
breaking
up with
awesome;
we haveto renewourvowsrighl
now...no,we'redivorcing,
andthistimeit'sfinal....but
we can'tdivorce,
what
grandchildren,
aboutour
all 17ofthem."
5 . Constantly
accusethemof beingtroubleandthe kindofwomanthatyourmother
warnedyouaboutOR,conversely,
tellthemthatYOUwillbreaktheirheartand
sleepwiththeirfriends.
6 . Teaseher:take cigarettesshe'saboutto lightout of her mouthand pretendto
throwthemacrossthe room;makeher workfor anythingshe wantsyou to pass
her;say,"ohmy god,yourpurseis gone!"thensmilewickedlyandsay"sucker"
whenshe freaksout;whatevera schoolyardbullywoulddo.
7 . Do NOTtouchherearlyto copa feel;touchherto teaseher.Swingheraround,
pick her up and pretendto weighher,moveher out of yourway;flip her;pinch
her cheeks;whatever.
8 . CockyFunny:she'shittingon you,she'smessingup herchanceswithyou,YOU
you,shewants
arethe 10,YOUarethe sexualobject,sheis inconveniencing
you,she'smovingtoo fast,etc.
NOTE:Onceyou get attractionand rapport,you can dropmostof this.
PART IX
FASHION
CONSULTATION
Get a woman,a trustworthystoresaleslady,a wing,a PUAteacher,or SoME
TRUSTED
SOURCEFORFASHION
to critiqueandaidyou in thefollowing
categories:
Style
Fashion
Clothing
Hair
Grooming
Optional
MaleMakeup
PART X
Now...theREALLYfunstuff...
DHVSAND IVDS
youjust
Introduce
themin a non-needy
way.Notto impress
them.lt'ssomething
learnedand you wantto practice,for example.Or teaseit and makethemask/beg.
IVD#1: BestFriendTest
Style: Okay,I haveto ask: how longhaveyou guysknowneachotherfor? (lf you think
they'resistersask,Are you guyssistersor bestfriends?)
HBs: blahblah
Style: See, I knewthat.
HBs: Howcouldyouknowthat?
Style:l'llshowyou.In fact,l'llgiveyouthe bestfriendtest.
HBs: (theyalwaysget excitedhere-theylovetestsfor somefuckingreason)
Style:Okay...(pretend
likeI'maboutto aska seriousquestion-you're
hooked,right,so
youknowthey'realreadyhooked)...do
you bothusethesameshampoot
HBs: (lookat eachother,and then opentheirmouthsto answer)
Style: Okay,the answerdoesn'tmatter.You alreadypassed.
HBst 22?2???.
Style: See,if you weren'tcloseto eachother,you'dkeepeye contactwith me as you
answered.But if two peoplehavea connection,
theylookat eachotherfirst.Kindof like
you'redoingrightnow.
HBs: giggle(Thisis wherethe seductionnewbiesyoujust met see you makingtwo
laughandthinkyou'rea PUAGod,LOL)
strangers
Style: See,you don'tevenneedto say anythingto eachother.lt's likeyoujust
communicate
telepathically.
Then,thereare a millionplacesto go from here:Oftenthey'lljustopenup and start
tellingyou abouthowthey met.(Nowyou'reREALLYin.) lf one lookedat the otherone
first,thenyou say that she is submissiveand the otheris dominantin the friendship.
(Canbe a greatneg.)lf theywantmore,I get personalhereand ask,"Hasone of you
ever kissedsomeonethe otherpersondated?"Theyfuckinglovethis one - but don't
makeit yourfirstquestion.
You canalsousethetelepathy
lineto launchintoa mindreading/cold-reading
routineif you do that.You'llfigurethe restof this out as you do it in
thefield.
IVD#2: Cs vs Us
This one is basedon a truestory,froma womanI met. But don'tpresentit as if YOU
believeit. Presentit as if it'ssomecrazystoryyou heard.
Style:Smileagainfor me.
HB: um,okay.
Style(to wing):See,she'sa U.
HBt 2???
Style: I dateda girlwho wantedto be a pop star.And she had a theorythat peoplewith
U-shapedsmileswereperceivedas unfriendly.
And peoplewith C-shapedsmileswere
perceivedas friendly.
HB: So what'sa U then?
Style: A U is whenyourteethgo straightbackin your mouth(canadd "kindof likea
horse"if she'sa SHB).A C is whenthere'sa big rowof pearlywhitesin the front.And to
my ex, it was morethan a theory.She actuallygot her teethsurgicallyreshapedfrom a
UtoaC.
HB: Noway.
Style:And shehadme go lookat pictures
of likeChristina
Aguilera,
whois a U, and
BritneySpears,who is a C. Lookat thecoverof Us or anymagazine,
andyou'llseethat
it's alwaysa C smileon the cover.
Fromhere,me andthe targetstartinspectingthe teethof randomstrangerslookingfor
the perfectC or U. lt'sfun. This nextsectionisn'tpartof the lVD, butthis is the restof
the routineif you wantit:
Style: lt's crazyhowmanyplasticsurgeriestheyhavefor celebsnow.She had her eye
makeupandherlipstick
tattooed
on,andwhenshechangedherhaircolor,she hadher
(lf the HB seemsopen-minded,
lips re-tattooed.
I continuewiththe following:) And do
you wantto hearthe grossestthing?Oneday I noticedthat she hadtwo rounddotson
her upperthighs.Sheworkedout two hoursa day and was super-flt,but evidentlyshe
got lipotoo. But here'swhat'scrazy.Becauseshe usedto work as an exoticdancer,
she got the fat injectedintoher labiaso that she alwayslookedaroused.(l REALLYsay
thisto HBs...and
thenI smile,say"goodbye"
as if l'm embarrassed,
andstartto jokingly
teave.)
ThenI throwin thisjoke,withcreditgoingto Nightlightg:
ShewasfromLA,andyou
haveto be carefulwith them.Wheneveryou go out with girlsin LA,everythingcan be
reallyfake. Fakehair(pointto your hair),fakeeyes(pointto eyes),fake nose(pointto
nose),faketeeth(pointto teeth),fake breasts(cupyour breasts).You haveto take
themto the doctorfirstto find out whichpartsare real...Theyput her througha
machine,
andyougeta print-out
at theend."
IVD#3: NameMnemonics
HB: What'syourname?
Style: I'm Style.
HB: l'mJanet.Thisis Donna.And that'sTony.
Style:Okay.......Janet...
Donna...Tony.
You know,I usedto be reallybadwithnames.
HBs:Omigod,I'mso badwithnames.
Style:Butyou don'thaveto be anymore.
Here,l'llshowyou in two seconds.
All I do
whenl'm introduced
to you is makea picturein my head.So if you'reJanet,I picture
you with the headof JanetfromThree'sCompany.No offense.And for Donna,I just
picturelikethe dawn,andthesun risingoveryourhead.AndforTony,I seeyouon
the frontof a box of FrostedFlakes.Here,l'll showyou.
Now,in the olddays,I'd havethemmemorize
my wholename:First,Middle,and Last.
But it cameoff as too gimmick-y.Now,I grabmy wing,or a strangerin the club (like
anothergirl I wantto meet)and teachthemhowto memorizehis/herFirst,Middle,and
Lastname.Learnaboutmnemonics
if youdon'tknowthis.Butfor it to work,youMUST
havethemreallySEEthe picturein theirminds.lt alsobecomes
funtestingthemlater
in the Sargeto see if they still remember.
IVD#4:EyeAccessingCues
Up=visual- invented/remembered
Side= auditory- invented/remembered
Down = kinesthetic/talking
to self
=
(rare1
v;"r"1
StraightAhead
Seguewayintothe following(demonstrated
on the DVDS)...
The Two LyingGames
'l - Eye-accessing
cues
2 - Interrogation
NOTE:DO NOTREADTHEFOLLOWING
IVDUNTILYOUHAVESEENlT
DEMONSTRATED
ON THEDVDS.
IVD#5: BirthdayGuessing
This is the codefor part I of the BlackMirrorTechniquedemonstrated
on the DVDS.
Knepper
handbook,
Completely
Cold.A
Part ll can be foundin the very short Kenton
powerfuldouble-whammy,
so powerfulin factthat you'llneverhaveto DHVagain
afreMard.
'1.I
2. So/Go
3. Try
4. Wi
5. Would/Could
6. Please
7. Quickly/Perhaps
8. Now
9. Alright
10. 0/1o-Okay
lf psychicmissesa cue,say,"You're a hard person to read."
lf wing messesup a cue,say "delete" to erasewhatwas just said.
IVD#6: TheCube
Quickreferenceto the Styleversion:
Horse= seli-image
Ladder= ambitions
in life
=
Flowers closefriendsand lovedones
Horseidealman
Storm= problemsin your lifeand the way you let themeffectyou.
(seeperformance
on DVD)
and furtherinstructions
PART XI
PLAYFULGAMES
.
NapkinTearing
.
The FiveQuestionsGame
.
MouseRace
Dogjaw
TheAmazingDollarBillMiracle
ToasUMilk
Riddles
Fuck,lvlarry,Kill
DrinkBalancing
on Thumbs
P e n1 5C l u b
CHANGERIDDLE:Havepenny,nickel,anddimein yourhand.Ben'smother
hadthreechildren:the first one was penny,the secondone was Nicholas,and
thethirdone is?
.
Breakpencilwithdollar
EXERCISE:
STOP!
Stopwatchingthe DVDSand goingthroughthe workbookRIGHTNOW.
Go outtonight,
or as soonas possible,
and PRACTICE
DHVSaboveBEFORE
continuing.
Usethis pageto writedownyour:
FieldReports
StickingPoints
Questions
Notesand AffirmationsFor Self-lmprovement:
Onceyou'vesuccessfully
demonstrated
twoDHVsandgenerated
interestor attraction
fromthem,thencontinue
onto thefinalpartofthe program.
PART XII
REMINDER:
Rulesof Learning:
. Nottakingit personally
. Chasingoncetheygetone lC..
. Winningoverthe obstacle- evenactuallyattractingher.
. Beingtoo afraidto walk away
. Expectinga reaction;beingneedywith routines.
. Understand
the structureand you'llneverrun out ofthingsto say
. Takeit lessseriously,havefun, blowit for the hell of it
a
o
PART XIII
Rapport,Qualifyingand Emotionalconnection
.
Style'sEV
.
"Namethreethingsaboutyourself
thatwouldmakemewantto getto knowyou
better...and
noneof themcanbe aboutyourlooks."
.
"Me,too"and"Whoah,I wasjustaboutto saythat"
.
N.4ystery's
26,000daysroutine.
.
Commonalities,
then bondoveryou two beingthe onlyonesin townwho feelthat
way
.
OpenLoops
.
100percentperfectgirl
.
For anothergoodpiece,I suggestresearchRossJeffries'signalattraction
routine
FORRAPPORT
AND EARLYON
QUESTIONS
1. lf my friendswere comingto dinner,whatwouldyou cookto impressthem?
2. lf you couldwakeup tomorrowwith one thingchangedaboutyour life,what
wouldit be?
3. lf you couldchangeonethingaboutyourselfphysically,whatwouldit be?
4. lf you hadto eitherhavesex with the mostrepulsivepersonon the planet(likefat
bastardtimesten),or die,whichwouldyou choose?
5. lf rightnow, you weretold that you had one hourleftto live,whatwouldyou do?
6. lf therewas a thingyou couldchangein the world,whatwouldit be?
7. What'sthe mostmeaningfulcomplimentyou haveevergot before?
a
EXERCISE:
\Mat areYOURstandards?
Whatareyoulookingfor?ScreenherBEFOREshe
screensyou.
1. Writedownthe kindofwomanyou'relookingfor, then screenthemfor that.Both
positive
values(positive
energy,ableto get alongwithanyone,adventurous,
spontaneous,
can livefor herselfwithoutworryingaboutpeerapproval)and negative
passiveaggressive)
values(drama,possessive,
needy,lowselfesteem,flakiness,
Now,whenyou meeta woman,screenher for thesequalities.Let her knowthat you
havestandards
and hoopsthatSHEmustjumpthrough.
PART XIV
CLOSES
.
Readinglols
.
Kinoescalation
.
Righthand/left
hand
.
The ultimate#close:Seedingfollowedby PaperTearing
.
The EvolutionPhaseShiftKissRoutine
.
"Youdon'tknowhowhardit is.."
.
GoodKisser1-10
.
Mystery'sWouldYou Liketo KissMe Routine
.
lnstantDates
PART XV
SECRETS
TO MASTERY:
As I progressedthroughthe Game,I constantlywrotedownmy goalsand sticking
points.I wrotedownwhatlwas goodat,whatlwas badat, andwhatI neededto learn.
I referredto thesenotesconstantly.
- Organization
Intelligence
So:
yourthoughts
Organize
andprogress.
Writedowna routine,step by step.
Writedownstickingpoints.
Writedowngoals.
Determinewhatmakesyou happy?
Checkyourselfmonthlyon the LASVEGASscale
Writedownyour ownstoriesand routinesthat makeyou interesting.
lgnorecriticismfromold friendsand familymemberswho don'twantyou to
change.
Makethe notesyou tookon who you wantedto be a yearfrom nowyour new
mantrauntilyou becomethat person.
Remember,from above,that one of the secretsto life is notto take it personally.
Becomeself-correcting.
Whenyou catchyourselfslippingbackintoold habits,
whichyou will,just recognizeit and stopit. No needto beatyourselfup.
Whenyou get yourfirstsuccesses,don'tget lazy.This is whenyou muststart
workingharderto internalizewhatyou did right
And here'sthe key questionthat helpedme determinewhat I was doingrightand
wrong:
Afteryou makeoutwith or sleepwith a woman,ask her,"Whendid you first realizeyou
wereattractedto me?"(Askin a playfulway that assumesthe sale,not in a needyway.)
you need.
Youwillgetallthe FEEDBACK
The answersmay surpriseyou.
yourBESTSELF.
Goodluckbecoming