Website: www.nativityburke.org TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME September 4, 2011 Dear Parishioners, “ When I was growing up, my family had its own way of dealing with disagreements. We just stopped speaking. Sometimes the deep freeze lasted a day, sometimes a week. Every once in while an offending aunt or cousin was simply erased from the family landscape.” Clearing out some of my old files this summer, I came upon these words from a past Newsweek column entitled My Turn. Although the article is a couple of years old, the message is still relevant today among some people - unfortunately. Why is it so difficult to say those simple words “I’m sorry?” The author stopped talking to her parents after a series of family difficulties ended in an angry phone conversation. For twelve long years they missed out on everything that makes family a family. Holidays not shared together, birthdays, Mother’s and Father’s Day not celebrated. And as the author so accurately pointed out: “After a year or two of keeping walls up, it’s not so easy to pick up that phone.” However the wall began to finally crumble. The thaw came when her father sent her a card in which he wrote three very powerful words: I am sorry. As I re-read the article, I recalled numerous counseling cases in my career that mirrored the same actions. People building walls and what is so sad is that sometimes as the years go by, we can forget just what put the walls up in the first place. And, if we do remember, it was usually over something miniscule. And yet pride keeps us from making the phone call, writing the note or emailing those simple words. Sometimes the death of the other really signals what a serious mistake we made. And then it is too late to say those three short words - and guilt easily sets in. One, or the most important, lesson Jesus taught was love and forgiveness. His last sermon was preached from His Cross: “Father forgive them, they do not know what they are doing.” And how often do we pray: “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who have trespassed (hurt) against us.” How many of us might be saying the words rather than praying them? How many might be doing just that as they are reading this column? Some of you might be thinking how naive I am. You are probably right on some issues, but not on this one. Each time I am called to anoint someone who is dying, or officiate at a funeral, I am reminded of just how short life really is. Our recent earthquake should have been a reminder to all of us how transitory life can be. Many therapists have affirmed that when we can forgive another person that has hurt us we begin feeling better. We might even say that we begin the work of forgiveness primarily for ourselves. Remember it is one thing to attend Eucharist on Sunday and it is equally important to LIVE the message once we leave. That is where we practice forgiveness. “It is better to forgive and forget, than to resent and remember.” Have a nice week. Website: www.nativityburke.org TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME September 4, 2011 How Did The “Priesthood” Come Into Being? Now this might seem like a silly question, but this is only so, until we take a very close look at the early Church. For the very first generation of Christians, “priesthood” was not a word used by the community, because of its close association to both the Jewish religion and paganism with its animal sacrifice. While the first Christians continued to recognize Judaism, in their small communities they looked to selected elders or adults to lead them and preside over the Eucharistic gatherings. These selected individuals were prayed over and had hands laid on them, designating their authority over the community. They were known as prespyteroi. Following the death of the apostles and first disciples, the chief elder in each community became known as the episkopos, which in Greek meant “overseer”. (In later years, in English, this person came to be known as the “bishop”, one who presided over the Eucharist.) It was these chief elders or episkopos, who became the successors to the apostles and who were responsible for preaching and teaching the true beliefs of Christ and the apostles. Sometime during these first centuries of the Church, the Eucharistic gathering or meal began to be thought of as a “sacrifice” and then at that time, the title “priest” came into use when referring to the prespyteroi or the episkopos. By the end of the third century, the presider at the Eucharist was commonly referred to as the priest. Interestingly, during the first 150 years of Christianity, the elders or presbyters were chosen by the members of the community that they would lead. For a short time even the bishops were chosen in this manner. As the Church took on more structure, this custom was changed. Birthday Celebration for the Blessed Virgin Mary: Gregory Green Shelley Weisman Bill Lowry Monday, September 5 9:00am Tuesday, September 6 7:30am Fr. Martin Wednesday, September 7 7:30am Fr. Martin Thursday, September 8 Margaret Legaspi Balintona 7:30am Joanne Rote Fr. Wilson Friday, September 9 7:30am Janet Brevik Victoria Motowylak Spanish Mass Saturday, September 10 9:00am 5:00pm 7:00pm Doug Stoynoff Stuart Barth Cecelia Sinkovits Dave S. Yastishock Sunday, September 11 7:30am 9:00am 11:00am 12:45pm Fr. Korpi Fr. Korpi Fr. Korpi Fr. Wilson Fr. Wilson Fr. Wilson Fr. Mertes Fr. Korpi Fr. Korpi Bible study will start on Tuesday, September 13 from 9:30-11a.m. in the APR for the study of the Book of Revelation from Little Rock Scripture Program. It consists of commentary, study guide and DVD lectures. For further information, contact Joan Consoli, ,703-690-5922 or Janet Hamrick, 703-866-9465. On Saturday, September10, our parish will celebrate Mary’s nativity (feast day Sept. 8) with a reception in the All- Purpose Room following the 9:00 a.m. Mass. Please join your fellow parishioners in this tribute to the “Mother of Jesus”. The Altar Flowers this week are In Loving Memory of John R. Wadsworth and Phil & Eve Puckett From Kathleen Puckett and In Loving Memory of John Nidhiry From Gracy & Emmaneul Nidhiry PRAY THE ROSARY FOR WORLD PEACE Volunteer Opportunity with the RCIC program! The RCIC program is still looking for a teacher for the younger class. The class is made up of 3rd-6th graders and they will be preparing for baptism, first communion, and confirmation. The class will meet on Monday night from 7:00-8:15pm. If you feel that the Lord is calling you to serve through this program, please contact Meghan O'Connor at 703-455-2400, or by email at [email protected]. Website: www.nativityburke.org TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Do you hunger for holiness? Search for integrity? Strive to balance the personal, spiritual and social dimensions of your lives? Engaging Spirituality, a Just Faith program, speaks to these challenges. Nativity is planning to offer an Engaging Spirituality program starting in September 2011. This 21-week program meets weekly. Meetings are from 7:00 to 9:30 p.m. For more information on Engaging Spirituality or to register, please stop by the table in the back of the church or contact: Ellen Hayes at 703‐978‐0468 or [email protected] Check www.justfaith.org My sincere thanks for your generosity for our second collection last Sunday for the destitute of Somalia. Your generosity$ 16,589.04 will help feed and clothe your sisters and brothers who are suffering 24 hours each day. Once again, I am so grateful for your response and continue to be proud of how our parish always looks out for those who are suffering – be they across the street or around the world. Fr. Martin Thought for the Week: You are where you are right now in your life because of the choices you have made and the actions you have taken. If you want to change your life, remember that change starts with you . Jeffrey Keller September 4, 2011 School is around the corner; Religious education classes Begin September 18, 19 and 20 for students enrolled by August 26. Students enrolled after August 26, begin religious education classes on September 25, 26, and 27. The Religious Education Program continues to have an URGENT NEED for teachers and assistant teachers. Please call 703.455.0372 to volunteer, send an email to [email protected], or simply drop by the Religious Education Office. An Orientation/Workshop Meeting is scheduled on Sunday, September 11, at 6:00pm in the Parish Hall for all Religious Education Program teachers, assistant teachers and all other volunteers. Plan to attend this very important information meeting to get the year off to a smooth start. All Religious Education Program Volunteers will be commissioned at Nativity’s 9:00am Mass on Catechetical Sunday, September 18. Student Registration forms should be turned in to the Religious Education Office along with payment and the student’s baptismal certificate (unless it was previously submitted). Forms are available in the Religious Education Office, on the community board in the church vestibule, or at www.edu.nativityburke.org; on the Nativity CCD tab click on Student Registration. AWAKEN YOUR FAITH! Cursillo is a religious retreat for men, women, religious, and clergy. The next one for men is on the weekend of October 6-9 at the new Diocesan retreat center, San Damiano. Bishop Loverde already has been on a Cursillo and is a strong advocate for it. Nativity Deacon Dale Avery will be one of the Spiritual Directors for the weekend. Contact him if you want more details: what is a Cursillo; where it is; how much does it cost, etc. ADVERTISER OF THE WEEK Cornerstone Family Counseling, P.C. 703-591-2551 www.cornerstonecounseling.org Website: www.nativityburke.org TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Parish Prayer List Please remember, in your prayers, the sick of our Parish Community: Tom Baskin, Elaine Bitton, Cecil Bosworth, Cyrilla Brungardt, Lullian Coffey, Manuel de Jesus, Margo Gordon, Jessica Knoeber, Eugenia Merida, Infant Charles Samuel Wilson, Krystina Woodworth, Infant Madison Woodworth For the deceased: Nancy McGuire Raymond Valente, Father of Joseph Valente Pray for our military men and women and their families. May God keep them safe and out of harm’s way. PRO-LIFE CORNER We can end abortion when we help the parents to trust that the baby is not an obstacle to their plans. Rather, both child and parents find their fulfillment in giving themselves to each other in love and thereby truly becoming a family. Choose Life Today. Choose Life Tomorrow. Pray Always. We Must Do No Less. Please support the TEPEYAC FAMILY CENTER, 11135 Lee Highway, Fairfax, VA 22030, 703-273-9440 x 107, with your prayers and financial resources. Info on this pregnancy resource center can be found at www.tepeyacfamilycenter.com Pro-Life Rosary and Witness - Nativity Parishioners are invited to pray for both an end to abortion and healing for those suffering from abortion at NOVA “Healthcare”, 10400 Eaton Place, Fairfax, VA 22030, from 7:30 - 8:30 am on Saturday mornings. This is the busiest hour of an active abortion clinic; it is not uncommon for over 10 women/couples to arrive during this time. Peacefully pray for Our Lady's intercessions and lovingly encourage calls to the numbers below. For more info, please contact Josh Reynolds, 703-470-8978, [email protected] September 4, 2011 Interested in Becoming Catholic? If so, we invite you to participate in Nativity’s RCIA program, beginning Monday, September 12, 2011, at 7 pm, in the Parish Hall. RCIA, the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults, is the Catholic Church’s way of forming new disciples of Jesus Christ, and welcoming new members into the Church at the Easter Vigil. Our program involves instruction, prayer, group discussion and spiritual events designed to prepare those seeking to enter the Church. RCIA is open to those who have not been baptized, Christians baptized into another faith, adult baptized Catholics who have not been confirmed and anyone else who wants to learn more about the Catholic faith. For more information, contact the Church office at (703) 455-2400, send an e-mail to Ron Riggins at [email protected] or pick up an RCIA brochure at the back of the Church. Come and join the Nativity Cub Scouts! Our Pack has a fabulous year of fun planned: build a Pinewood Derby car, two family campouts, games, activities, fellowship (and maybe a few skills along the way). Moms and dads are needed as well (they have fun too!). Please join us for our first Pack meeting on Friday, September 16th, 7:00pm, in the Parish hall. Boys starting 1st grade this year through 5th grade are eligible for Cub Scouting. Don't let your boys miss out on all the fun! For more info please call Pete Griffiths, (571) 4992121. CATHOLIC WOMEN’S BIBLE STUDY All women are invited for prayer, study, food and fellowship. We will be learning about the Blessed Mother’s life in the study: A Marian Bible Study: Bringing Scripture to Life for Moms. September 16 to December 16, on Fridays 9:30 to 12:00 in the All Purpose Room. Women with children are welcome...we take turns watching each other’s children. Please bring: your rosary, a Catholic bible, the bible study book available in the church bookstore. For more information call Laura Wells, 703-455-5498 or [email protected] 24-Hour Crisis Pregnancy Hotline: 1-800-395-HELP Project Rachel (healing after abortion): 1-888-456-HOPE (4673) Pregnancy Resource Centers Phone Numbers: Catholic Charities National: 1-800-CARE-002 Catholic Charities Local: 703-425-0100 A Woman's Choice: 703-538-4305 Gabriel Project: 1-866-444-3553 THE CATHOLIC DAUGHTERS, Court Kavanaugh, No. 54, begin a new year in September. Women of all ages are invited to attend the next regular meeting at 7PM, on Monday, September 12, 2011, downstairs in St. Mary’s Lyceum, located at 313 Duke Street. Please join us in faithfulness and fellowship as we plan projects and events for the coming year. You may contact Helen Lynch for additional information on 703-582-5722, or helenlynch21@ gmail.com . Website: www.nativityburke.org TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME NEW! IN THE GIFT SHOP! Just in time for crisp fall weather, find delicious hot soup mixes in the Fair Trade Corner. The Women's Bean Project in Denver, Colorado, helps at-risk women with job training and work opportunities. Try Toni's 10 Bean Soup, 6 Bean Soup, or Spicy Split Pea Soup. Vegan, kosher, and heartwarming. SERRV, INT. was started at the end of World War II when a member of the Church of the Brethren brought cuckoo clocks from Germany to sell in the US in an effort to help Germany get back on its feet. Since then it has grown and supports Fair Trade communities and producers around the world. SERRV, INT and Catholic Relief Services work in partnership to promote Fair Trade coffee, chocolate, and crafts. For great gift ideas, check crsfairtrade.org or serrv.org or visit the SERRV shop at 500 Main Street, New Windsor, MD. A lovely drive in the Maryland countryside! Prime Time Single Catholics (PTSC) is open to all single Catholics, 40 and older, who have never married, are widowed, or are divorced with a Church annulment. September Events: Every Monday, 10 AM (except holidays) social golf at the Par 3 Burke Lake Golf Course Center, call Rose, 703-6444841 September 11, Sunday 7pm Dine at the Indigo Restaurant in Alexandria, call Beth 703-683-0222 September 17, Saturday 6pm A social evening to meet PTSC members in Falls Church, call Anne 703-751-0739 September 18, Sunday 5pm Dance at the Elks Lodge in Fairfax, call Jack 703-971-8665 Anyone with questions about PTSC may call Jack Emery, 703-971-8665, for more information. Celebrating a Silver or Golden Wedding Anniversary this year? Were you married in 1961 or 1986? Then join Bishop Loverde for the 2011 Marriage Jubilee Mass to celebrated on Sunday, October 23rd at 2:30 pm at the Cathedral of St. Thomas More. Contact the parish office (703-455-2400) to register no later than September 23rd. For more information, visit www.arlingtondiocese.org/familylife/MJM.php. September 4, 2011 OPERATION STARFISH® NEWS www.operation-starfish.org FR. MARTIN ANNOUNCES NEXT MISSION TRIP TO HAITI Church of the Nativity parishioners will travel to Haiti with Food For The Poor in November, 2011. This mission trip will involve a combination of activities to expose travelers to the needs of the poor and the efforts of Food For The Poor and Church of the Nativity to meet those needs. Nativity parishioners will visit several “Nativity Village” developments, feeding centers, orphanages, fishing villages, and other facilities. When asked how travelers should prepare for such a journey, Fr. Martin said, “just bring an open mind and open heart; the Holy Spirit will do the rest.” As currently planned, a group of about 15 will leave Washington on Sunday, November 6; overnight in Ft. Lauderdale; take an early flight on Monday, November 7 to Port-au-Prince; fly on Wednesday, November 9 to CapHaitien; and return home on Friday, November 11. We plan to dedicate Nativity Village at Lozandier, on the south coast of Haiti; dedicate Nativity Village at Chastenoye, on the north coast; dedicate the new community center in Madras, and visit several additional projects funded by Operation Starfish. There will be some hands-on work at Food For The Poor’s feeding center, at the Little Children of Jesus Home and at other sites. We are also planning a visit to Cardinal Leger Leper Hospital. If you would like to see what a Nativity mission trip is like, stop by the church office for a dvd from our last trip to Haiti. For additional information on this upcoming mission trip, please contact Jim McDaniel ([email protected]) 703455-6874. A FREE AND EASY WAY TO RAISE FUNDS FOR OPERATION STARFISH This is going to be the easiest thing we’ve ever asked you to do! Operation Starfish is registered with GoodSearch.com and now every time you search the internet, a donation will be made to Operation Starfish - Church of the Nativity. Just go to www.goodsearch.com and follow the simple instructions. GoodSearch will make a donation to Operation Starfish with very search you make. Thanks for giving it a try! Website: www.nativityburke.org TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME September 4, 2011 2011 White House Ornament Sale by Women of Nativity September 10/11 and 17/18 Monday, September 5 Labor Day Office Closed 9:00 am………………………………...….…...Mass (CH) 8:00 pm………………………..….......AA Meeting (APR) Wednesday, September 7 10:00 am……………………………......Mom & Me (APR) 7:00 pm…………………………....ESL Registration (GR) 7:00 pm……………………...Hispanic Prayer Group (SC) 7:30 pm………………………....…...Legion of Mary (SL) 7:30 pm…………………...Hispanic Baptism Class (APR) Thursday, September 8 9:30 am………………………….….....Craft Group (APR) 7:00 pm…………………………....ESL Registration (GR) 7:15 pm………………….....Prayer Group Meeting (APR) Saturday, September 10 10:00 am…………………………....ESL Registration (GR) 10:00 am…………………….……......Dog Obedience (PL) 4:00 pm………………………….....Hispanic CCD (S/PH) 5:00 pm………………………….Hispanic CYO (Room 4) Knights Wive's Appreciation Dinner All Brother Knights are welcome to come join us on Saturday September 10th for a special night to thank our wives for supporting us throughout the year. We will be going to see Nunsense at the Lazy Susan Dinner Theatre. The Council will contribute $25 towards each wife's ticket, so for only $35 per couple, you active Brother Knights can take your Lady out for a fantastic evening. You must RSVP and prepay to attend this event. To do so, please give our Grand Knight, Phil Thompson, your deposit by Wednesday, September 7th. Soccer Challenge The Father Sikora (Nativity Parish) Council of the Knights of Columbus will hold the annual Council Soccer Challenge in conjunction with Holy Spirit on September 10th from 9:00 AM to 3:00 PM. The field is located behind Holy Spirit School. Holy Spirit is located at 8800 Braddock Road, Annandale, Fairfax County, Virginia 22003, at the corner of Burke Lake Road and Braddock. The Soccer Challenge is open to boys and girls ages 10-14 years old. Contact John Larvie for more information: (703) 451-3477) or [email protected]. You are going to love adding this ornament to your White House collection! It features Theodore Roosevelt, who was our 26th President. At the age of 42 he brought six children into the White House. It seems appropriate to have Santa on this years ornament, it is so fun! The cost is $20.00 for each ornament-we accept checks and cash only. Checks are made out to Church of Nativity. The Women of Nativity will be selling ornaments the weekends of September 10-11 and 17-18, between the hours of 8AM and 1PM on Sundays and Saturday before and after the 5PM Mass. Proceeds from this sale will assist local families and charities as well as victims of natural disasters in the name of “Nativity”. We look forward to seeing you in front of the church! Thank you for supporting our only fundraiser of the year! The Nativity Girl Scout troops would like to invite girls in kindergarten through 12th grade to join our programs. Troops are forming and/ or accepting girls at all levels: Daisy (K-1st), Brownie (2nd-3rd), Junior (4th-5th), Cadette (6th-8th), Senior (9th-10th), and Ambassador (11th-12th). Flyers are available at the back of the church in the Scouting Folder on the bulletin board. Girl Scouts gives girls opportunities to practice leadership, learn useful skills, earn religious emblems, and provide service to the community in a fun, safe environment. Find out how much fun and value there is with scouting. Adult volunteers are always needed and greatly appreciated – no experience necessary. Free training is provided. Contact Becky Chaves at 703-425-4965 or stop by the Girl Scout table after all Masses this weekend to get more information. Forthcoming Programs at Dominican Retreat 703-356-4243 Advance Reservations Necessary September 9-11...Charismatic Retreat for Women & Men Directed by Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR. Friday 3:00pm to Sunday 1:00pm. September 16-18...Special Weekend Retreat, Prayer of Heart and Body II Directed by Fr. Tom Ryan, CSP. Friday 7:15pm to Sunday 1:00pm For more information check our website www.dominicanretreat.org Website: www.nativityburke.org TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME September 4, 2011 CUESTA Y MUCHO Domingo XXIII (A) Javier Leoz Todos, en muchos aspectos, tenemos un ideal. Todos, en algún momento de nuestra vida, hemos anhelado llegar a metas altas. Todos, en algún instante, hemos intentado buscar la perfección y escapar de la mediocridad o de las cosas dejadas a medias. Y, en todo ello; en los ideales, metas y búsqueda de la perfección, nos hemos dado cuenta que no siempre hemos estado a la altura y que, para llegar hasta el final, hemos tenido que corregir aquello que no era bueno para lograr nuestros propósitos. ¿O no? -¿Sirve de algo iniciar un viaje sabiendo que, en el bolsillo, no tenemos lo suficiente para hacer frente a los gastos? - ¿Es bueno, para nosotros y para los que nos rodean, encerrarnos en nuestros defectos y presumir de lo que sabemos son en el fondo errores? - ¿Por qué, con frecuencia, pensamos que la conversión o el cambio lo tienen que realizar los demás y no en nuestra vida? Jesús, en el evangelio de este domingo, nos ofrece unas pistas que son muy dignas de ser tenidas en cuenta: Primero: la corrección fraterna no significa el modelar las personas a nuestro antojo. Cuántas veces nos creemos con derecho a apuntar las debilidades de los demás y a ocultar las nuestras. El Señor nos indica el camino y el sentido auténtico de la corrección fraterna: buscar que nuestros hermanos estén en comunión con Dios. Segundo: nuestro objetivo, como cristianos, no es juzgar ni pregonar desde la azotea de nuestras palabras, posición o privilegios, las actitudes o vida de los demás. Nuestra oración, nuestra misión o nuestro reto debe ser precisamente el que los demás encuentren la verdad de Dios. Tercero: aquello de “a mí plin” no es bueno ni característico de una vida cristiana. Los problemas de los demás, aunque nos parezca una intromisión, deben de ser también los nuestros. No podemos vivir indiferentes al sufrimiento de los que nos rodean. Ser cristiano es compartir la alegría y la tristeza, el gozo y el llanto, el éxito y el fracaso con todos. Cuesta, y mucho, corregir y ser corregido. Corregir; porque siempre hay riesgo de perder amigos y de ser subjetivo o dejarnos seducir o condicionar por nuestras ideas, ideologías o preferencias. Cuesta, y mucho, ser corregido; entre otras cosas porque el nivel de nuestra fe no siempre está suficiente cultivado como para afrontar o acoger una dinámica de este tipo. Sólo, desde la lectura de la Palabra de Dios, desde el amor a Cristo, desde el deseo de encontrarnos con El es cuando, la corrección fraterna, es entendida como un camino que nos abre las puertas hacia el encuentro personal y auténtico con Jesús y a una mejora en nuestra relación con los demás. Vivimos en una sociedad donde, los defectos y los fallos de la Iglesia, son aireados no como llamada al cambio o la reflexión sino como destrucción. También, a nuestro alrededor, con nuestra forma de enjuiciar situaciones y personas, podemos caer en la misma tentación: querer someter todo aquello que no nos agrada. Y eso, amigos, no es corrección amigable, fraterna o cristiana, sino todo lo contrario: aniquilación del adversario. Pidamos, desde la fuerza que nos da la oración, que seamos capaces de discernir nuestra propia vida, de fomentar comunidades cristianas más auténticas y de que, nuestra maduración en la fe vaya creciendo de tal manera, que gustemos y Catequesis necesita voluntarios El grupo de catequesis desea invitar a todas las personas que esten interesadas en trabajar con los niños, jovenes, y padres de familia de la comunidad durante el año de catequesis sirviendo como catequistas, asistentes, voluntarios, o en la Oficina. Si tienes el interes de colaborar con nosotros y servir a Jesús con tu trabajo, no dudes en contactarte con Maria Pia Vela durante los horarios de oficina de lunes a viernes de 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. o llamando al 703-455-2401 ext. 116 o por e-mail al [email protected]. Catequesis: Inscripciones abiertas Las inscripciones de la catequesis ya estan abiertas para todos los niños, jovenes y adultos de la comunidad. Invitamos a todas las personas interesadas a inscribirse cuanto antes, especialmente si deseas prepararte para los sacramentos de Primera Comunión o Confirmacion. Las inscripciones terminan en el mes de septiembre. Para inscribirse por favor contáctese a María Pía Vela de lunes a viernes de 9:00 a.m. a 5:00 p.m. o llamando al 703-455-2401 ext. 116 o por email: [email protected] Website: www.nativityburke.org TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME HAZLO CON AMOR Si tengo defectos y dificultan mi camino ayúdame a superarlos….pero con amor Si avanzo en la dirección equivocada indícame el camino verdadero….pero con amor Si hay algo que de mí no te gusta y te hiere házmelo saber….pero con amor Si mi vida se dispara hacia un túnel sin salida adviértemelo….pero con amor Si soy egoísta o vanidoso si la envidia no me deja ser feliz si tengo mil vicios o caídas dímelo….pero con amor Si no soy como no tengo que ser, no pretendas que sea como tú, pero si tú vives en la verdad y yo en la mentira dime cómo se sale de ella….pero con amor Si me falta corazón y caridad reza por mí…..pero hazlo con amor Si estoy mal conmigo mismo y con los demás si me encuentro agarrotado por la soberbia si hace tiempo que perdí el norte de mi existir mírame a los ojos….pero hazlo con amor Si pensamos de forma diferente si crees que podemos caminar juntos si todavía confías en mí lo intentemos de nuevo…..pero con amor Pero una cosa te digo: Si piensas que, sólo soy yo, el que fallo Si crees que, soy sólo yo, el falto de caridad Si crees que tú eres el santo, el bueno y el sabio no me digas entonces nada… Porque es cuando me daré cuenta que tú tampoco dejas actuar a Dios. Dime lo que quieras… pero eso sí…hazlo con amor Amén September 4, 2011 Actividades de la Comunidad Hispana Iglesia de la Natividad 6400 Nativity Lane Burke, VA 22015 Teléfono 703-455-2400 Rev. Cedric Wilson SANTA MISA EN ESPAÑOL: Todos los sábados a las 7:00pm CONFESIONES: Los sábados antes de la Santa Misa de 6:15pm a 6:55pm . Catequesis Para niños y Jóvenes: Sábados de 5:00pm a 6:45pm Informes: 703-455-2400, ext 116 Sr. Ponciano 202-262-6659 Catequesis Para niños y Jóvenes: Inscripciones para el año escolar septiembre 2011 a mayo 2012 están abiertas. Catequesis para adultos: Bautismo, Comunión, y Confirmación, Sábados de 5:15pm a 6:15pm Contacto: Tito Pinto 703-912-9220 Charla para el Bautismo: Primer Miércoles del mes 7:30pm, aula 8 Sacramento del Bautismo: Tercer Sábado del mes. 1:30pm Contacto: Deacon Pardo 703-455-2400 Grupo de Oración: Miércoles 7:00pm a 9:00pm. Están todos invitados. Marco Camacho 703-968-5585 Grupo de Liderazgo Juvenil reuniones: Domingo 11:00am-1:00pm aula 5 Contacto: Nelson Pineda 571-234-3664 Reunión del Grupo de los Jóvenes Sábados: a partir de las 5:00pm aula 4. contacto: Juan Carlos Chávez 703-4736941 Solidaridad Cristiana: Mayor información llamar Mirian Ponciano 703-913-5494. Javier Leoz Para mas información: María Guevara 703-444-5716 Anuncios para el boletín: debe ser presentado por escrito el viernes a las 9 de la mañana (10 días antes de su publicación). Pueden enviar entradas por correo electrónico a [email protected] Charlas de Convalidación para recibir el Sacramento del Matrimonio: cada otro domingo del mes 9:00am – 10:45am aula 4. Contacto: Antonio y Maritza Di Paolo 703-493-8719 Reunión de Matrimonios: domingo 9:00am – 11:00am aula 5. Contacto: Segundo y María Guevara 703-444-5716 Website: www.nativityburke.org TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME September 4, 2011 Aprende Tu Fe Más allá de todo lo que pase, con una sonrisa sencilla, amable, buena, podré ver las cosas y las personas con más ilusión y esperanza. Asuntos serios han de ser tratados seriamente: con atención hacia los argumentos, con el deseo sincero de encontrar soluciones. A veces, el argumento presenta escondites complejos. No resulta fácil encontrar salidas. El corazón y la mente se sienten presionados, inquietos. ¿Qué hacer? ¿Cómo salir adelante ante un problema grave, ante un asunto complejo? De repente, una sonrisa oportuna puede no sólo regalarnos unos instantes de paz, sino devolver energías para ver las cosas de manera diferente. No es una sonrisa irónica que parece más un insulto de desprecio que un gesto de distensión, sino una sonrisa auténtica que descansa y que ayuda a descansar, que nace de la simpatía y genera simpatías. Demasiada seriedad agota. La sonrisa sana no sólo genera hormonas gratificantes (según dicen algunos especialistas), sino sobre todo un espíritu distendido y una mente más abierta. El corazón descansa brevemente. Los ojos miran con nuevo fulgor asuntos difíciles. Surgen incluso palabras más amables, que suplantan las que antes dirigíamos con dureza hacia otras personas. Sigo de camino en este día luminoso u oscuro, que promete lluvia o que inquieta a todos con vientos oscurecidos por el polvo. Pequeñas o grandes situaciones enturbian mi alma: la tensión por no encontrar dónde estacionar el coche, las prisas para llegar a tiempo al trabajo, la inquietud ante los apagones intermitentes de la luz... Más allá de todo lo que pase, con una sonrisa sencilla, amable, buena, podré ver las cosas y las personas con más ilusión y esperanza; lo cual es especialmente urgente en un mundo como el nuestro, lleno de prisas y de angustias, y hambriento de corazones positivos y de rostros sonrientes, que transmiten esa verdadera alegría que viene de Dios y que nos conduce suavemente hacia Él. La ley del amor El amor, pues, es la Ley perfecta. Romanos 13:10 LAS LEYES EXISTEN PARA mostrarnos el camino, para señalar los rudimentos de la ética. Al obedecerlas, generan orden, pero no garantizan la conversión. Uno puede obedecer todas las leyes siempre y, sin embargo, ser incapaz de amar; una persona puede ser un ejemplo de rectitude y comportase como un tirano con los familiars y colegas, cumplir con todas las obligaciones con los demás pero tratarlos con fría indiferencia. Veamos, por ejemplo, el mandato de honrar a los padres: hay quienes cubren diligentemente todas las necesidades materiales de sus padres en edad avanzada pero no pasan tiempo con ellos. O reflexionemos sobre la prohibición del adulterio: hay quienes son fieles durante sus 50 años de matrimonio pero pasan cada uno esos años combatiendo una “guerra fría”. Tal comportamiento no pertenece a la categoría tradicional de “pecado” pero tampoco se parece al amor. Las leyes nos hacen sentir justificados; el amor, por otra parte, nos entibia el corazón. Ablanda nuestros corazones de piedra, oh Señor, para wue aprendamos a amar. Elizabeth-Anne Stewart Ezequiel 33:7-9 ; Salmo 95: 1-2, 6-9 ; Romanos 13: 8-10 ; Mateo 18: 15-20