“That all may be one” (Jn 17:21) “Que todos sean uno.” Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish at St. James Church 233 County Street English: 508-992-9408 Español: 508-996-5862 Fax: 508-990-0575 Mass in English: 4:00pm (Sat), 8:30am, 10:00am (Sun) New Bedford, MA 02740 www.GuadalupeNewBedford.com Misa en Español : 11:30am, The Holy Father names a new for our Diocese Most Rev. Edgar da Cuhna Formal Installation as eighth Bishop of Fall River September 24, 2014 El Santo Padre ha nombrado un nuevo obispo para nuestra Diócesis: Reverendísimo Edgar da Cuhna Toma de Posesion como el octavo Obispo de Fall River 24 Septiembre 2014ember 24, 2014 Fifteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time—July 13, 2014 ^ƚĂƚĞŵĞŶƚŽĨŝƐŚŽƉĚŐĂƌD͘ĚĂƵŶŚĂ͕^s &ŝƌƐƚŽĨĂůů͕/ǁĂŶƚƚŽƚŚĂŶŬ'ŽĚĨŽƌĐĂůůŝŶŐ me to serve in a new posion here in Fall River. I see this new mission as a gi from ƚŚĞ>ŽƌĚĂŶĚĂŶŽƉƉŽƌƚƵŶŝƚLJƚŽĞdžĞƌĐŝƐĞƚŚĞ ŵŝŶŝƐƚƌLJƚŽǁŚŝĐŚŚĞŚĂƐĐĂůůĞĚŵĞ͘/ĂůƐŽ ǁŝƐŚƚŽĞdžƉƌĞƐƐŵLJƐŝŶĐĞƌĞƚŚĂŶŬƐƚŽŽƵƌ ďĞůŽǀĞĚ,ŽůLJ&ĂƚŚĞƌ͕WŽƉĞ&ƌĂŶĐŝƐ͕ĨŽƌŚŝƐ confidence in entrusng now to me the ƉĂƐƚŽƌĂůĐĂƌĞŽĨƚŚŝƐůŽĐĂůĐŚƵƌĐŚ͕ƚŚĞŝŽĐĞƐĞŽĨ&ĂůůZŝǀĞƌ͕ my new home. I see this as a gi from God, an opportunity to use the gis God graciously gave me to serve the faithful ƉĞŽƉůĞŽĨƚŚŝƐĚŝŽĐĞƐĞ͘ /ĂŵŐƌĂƚĞĨƵůƚŽŝƐŚŽƉŽůĞŵĂŶĨŽƌŚŝƐŬŝŶĚ ǁĞůĐŽŵĞĂŶĚďƌŽƚŚĞƌůLJůŽǀĞ͕ĂŶĚĨŽƌĂůůƚŚĞŐŽŽĚǁŽƌŬŚĞ ŚĂƐĚŽŶĞŚĞƌĞĂŵŽŶŐ'ŽĚ͛ƐƉĞŽƉůĞĚƵƌŝŶŐŚŝƐǁŚŽůĞůŝĨĞ͕ĂŶĚ ĞƐƉĞĐŝĂůůLJĚƵƌŝŶŐƚŚĞůĂƐƚϭϭLJĞĂƌƐĂƐƚŚĞƐŚĞƉŚĞƌĚŽĨƚŚŝƐ ůŽĐĂůĐŚƵƌĐŚ͘/ǁŝƐŚƚŽŐƌĞĞƚĂůůŵLJďƌŽƚŚĞƌƉƌŝĞƐƚƐ͕ĂŶĚƚŽƚĞůů ƚŚĞŵƚŚĂƚ/ĂŵĞĂŐĞƌƚŽŬŶŽǁƚŚĞŵĂŶĚƚŽǁŽƌŬǁŝƚŚƚŚĞŵ ĨŽƌƚŚĞŬŝŶŐĚŽŵŽĨ'ŽĚĂŶĚƚŚĞƐĞƌǀŝĐĞŽĨ'ŽĚ͛ƐƉĞŽƉůĞ͘/ extend my hear elt greengs to all deacons, men and ǁŽŵĞŶŝŶŽŶƐĞĐƌĂƚĞĚ>ŝĨĞ͕ƐĞŵŝŶĂƌŝĂŶƐĂŶĚĂůůƚŚĞ&ĂŝƚŚĨƵů of this great Diocese in this corner of Massachuse#s. I wish ƚŽŐƌĞĞƚĂůůĐŚĂŶĐĞƌLJƐƚĂīĂŶĚƚŽůĞƚƚŚĞŵŬŶŽǁƚŚĂƚ/Ăŵ ůŽŽŬŝŶŐĨŽƌǁĂƌĚƚŽĐŽŵŝŶŐƚŽŬŶŽǁƚŚĞŵĂŶĚƚŽǁŽƌŬĐůŽƐĞůLJ with them. I count on their talents and experse and look ĨŽƌǁĂƌĚƚŽůĞĂƌŶŝŶŐĨƌŽŵƚŚĞŵ͘/ŬŶŽǁ/ŚĂǀĞƐŽŵƵĐŚƚŽ ůĞĂƌŶĨƌŽŵĂůůǁŚŽůŝǀĞ͕ǁŽƌŬĂŶĚŵŝŶŝƐƚĞƌƚŽ'ŽĚ͛ƐƉĞŽƉůĞŝŶ ƚŚĞŝŽĐĞƐĞŽĨ&ĂůůZŝǀĞƌ͘/ŚĂǀĞƚŽůĞĂƌŶƚŚĞ'ĞŽŐƌĂƉŚLJĂŶĚ ƚŚĞŚŝƐƚŽƌLJŽĨƚŚŝƐĚŝŽĐĞƐĞ͘dŚĞƌĞŝƐŵƵĐŚƚŽůĞĂƌŶĂďŽƵƚƚŚĞ ƚŚŶŝĐŐƌŽƵƉƐƚŚĂƚŵĂŬĞƵƉƚŚĞĨĂŝƚŚĨƵůŽĨƚŚĞŝŽĐĞƐĞ͕ƚŚĞŝƌ faith, their tradions and learn from them how to celebrate ĂůůƚŚŝƐǁŝƚŚƚŚĞŵ͘/͛ŵǁŝůůŝŶŐƚŽůĞĂƌŶĨƌŽŵƚŚĞŵĂŶĚƚŽ ĐĞůĞďƌĂƚĞŽƵƌĨĂŝƚŚƚŽŐĞƚŚĞƌ͘/ǁŝƐŚƚŽůĞƚĂůůƚŚĞƉĞŽƉůĞŽĨ ƚŚŝƐŝŽĐĞƐĞƚŽŬŶŽǁƚŚĂƚ/ĐŽŵĞĂŵŽŶŐƚŚĞŵĂƐĂďƌŽƚŚĞƌ ĂŵŽŶŐďƌŽƚŚĞƌƐĂŶĚƐŝƐƚĞƌƐ͕ǁŝƚŚŵLJƐŝŶĐĞƌĞĐŽŵŵŝƚŵĞŶƚƚŽ give my very best to build up the Church, to live and pracce ŽƵƌĨĂŝƚŚƚŽŐĞƚŚĞƌ͘/ŚŽƉĞƚŚĞLJŬŶŽǁƚŚĂƚLJŽƵĐĂŶĐŽƵŶƚŽŶ me, and I am counng on their prayers, their faith, their support, gis, talents and generosity. /ĐŽƵůĚŶĞǀĞƌ͕ŝŶŵLJǁŝůĚĞƐƚĚƌĞĂŵ͕ŝŵĂŐŝŶĞŵLJƐĞůĨ ƐƚĂŶĚŝŶŐŚĞƌĞĂƐƚŚĞĨƵƚƵƌĞŝƐŚŽƉŽĨƚŚŝƐŝŽĐĞƐĞ͘KŶůLJ 'ŽĚ͛ƐƉůĂŶ͕ĂŶĚ'ŽĚ͛Ɛǁŝůů͕ĐŽƵůĚŵĂŬĞŝƚƉŽƐƐŝďůĞ͘ŶĚƐŽ͕/ ĂŵĐŽŶǀŝŶĐĞĚƚŚĂƚƚŚŝƐŝƐĂůů'ŽĚ͛ƐƉůĂŶĂŶĚ'ŽĚ͛ƐĚŽŝŶŐ͘ůů ƚŚĞŵŽƌĞƌĞĂƐŽŶƚŽďĞŐůĂĚĂŶĚƌĞũŽŝĐĞ͕ƚŽĐĞůĞďƌĂƚĞĂŶĚŐŝǀĞ ƚŚĂŶŬƐƚŽ'ŽĚĨŽƌŚŝƐĐĂƌĞĂŶĚĮĚĞůŝƚLJƚŽĂůůŽĨƵƐ͘dŚĂŶŬLJŽƵ͊ Finance Council: The next meeting of the members of the parish Finance Council will be next Sunday, July 20 at 6:00 PM in the rectory. Second Collection: The second collection this weekend is for evangelization. Next week is the monthly maintenance collection. Thank you for your continued support. Parish Outing: Today, the parish has reserved the use of Cathedral Camp for our parish outing day. All are invited to use the camp: the lake will be supervised by lifeguards for swimming, grills will be available for cooking, and food available for purchase. Bring your own lawn chairs and beach ball! All are welcome and encouraged to a restful day at the Camp! Classes: Tutoring classes will be offered for children ages 610 two afternoons a week in our parish. There will be classes in English, reading, and Math for each grade level. The children will also learn to use interactive computer programs, tablets, and iPads as part of the instruction. There will be a minimal fee for these classes. If you are interested in having your child participate, please call Sister Barbara at 477-6345868 Day with Mary: The next Day with Mary will be on Saturday, August 9 at St. Anthony Church in New Bedford. All are invited to attend and take some time to deepen your connection with the Mother of the Lord. Youth Choir: The youth choir will take a break until September. We’re grateful for their enthusiasm and life that they bring to our liturgies, especially at the 10AM Mass. For information about joining the choir, please talk to Phil Perreira. Parish Council: The upcoming World Meeting of Families” was discussed at the recent parish council meeting. There will be an informational gathering for those couples who are interested in attending the event in Philadelphia in Sept 2015. Financial assistance is available. For more information about the event visit: www.worldmeeting2015.org and speak with Fr. Pregana. “Diapers & Things”: Thanks to Linda Cheney and her Team who are reaching out to needy Moms and children living in the South End. They had their first clothing distribution last Tuesday and will be here again this Tuesday, July 15 in the church basement from 10AM-1PM for families on MA Health & SNAP or WIC, or for families who cannot buy needed clothing. Please bring MA Health card for each child and your ID. Use the County Street Entrance. They will begin registration now for distribution of diapers beginning in September. Summer Camp: The St. Vincent de Paul Society is offering an opportunity to any needy youngsters of the parish ages 4-14 to attend Cathedral Camp in East Freetown. For more information and criteria, contact Maureen Lewis at 508-993-6965. Cereal Drive: The Knights of Columbus from our parish will have a cereal drive to benefit St. Anthony Soup Kitchen next Sunday. Please bring a box of your favorite brand of cereal to church to donate to the drive! Fenway Park: The Boston Red Sox are hosting a “Catholic Night” at Fenway on Tuesday, July 29, and offering specially priced bleacher ($30) and right field box tickets ($55). Parishes from the dioceses of New England are invited to participate in “Catholic Night.” For more information, there are flyers at the doors of the church. Altar server Outing: The altar servers of the parish are invited to a fun day at WaterWizz in Wareham on Tuesday, July 22. For more information talk to Mrs. Carrie Pereira or Fr. Pregana. Parish Youth are invited to join the server group for the outing to WaterWizz for the entrance fee of $25 ($17 for children under 48”). Info flyers and Permission slips are available in the sacristy. Diocesan Spanish Council: The Hispanic Apostolate is inviting all Hispanic youth to a Cook Out and Camp Day on Saturday, July 26 from 10am-4pm. Those who are interested in participating in the day must complete a permission slip. Please talk to Karla Juarez or Fr. Pregana. St. Michael Retreat: The San Miguel Prayer Community will host a retreat in Spanish Aug 16-17. For more information, talk to Myra Carranza or one of the members of the prayer community. Bereavement Group: The New Bedford Area group will begin meeting on July 16th at 6:30PM at St. Mary’s Church, 783 Dartmouth Street, S.Dartmouth. All are welcome. For more information, contact Beni Costa-Reedy at 508-9927505. Golf Tournament: The Diocesan Health Facilities 7th Annual Golf Classic will be held August 25,2014 at LeBaron Hills Country Club, Lakeville, MA. All proceeds will benefit the over 900 individuals we serve in our skilled nursing and rehabilitation centers and community programs. For details on the levels of participation available, please contact: The DHFO at 508-679-8154. Printable registration forms are available at www.dhfo.org. UMD: Catholic Campus Ministry at UMD is inviting all incoming freshmen to a gathering of the CM team and other new students on Tuesday, July 15 at St. Julie’s in N.Dartmouth from 7:00-8:30PM. There will be pizza and a chance to learn some tips to surviving freshmen year! For more info: www.umassdcatholics.com/embark. 15o domingo del Tiempo Ordinario ~ 13 Julio 2014 ůWĂƉĂŚĂŶŽŵďƌĂĚŽDŽŶƐĞŹŽƌĚŐĂƌĚĂƵŶŚĂ ůWĂƉĂŚĂŶŽŵďƌĂĚŽĂKďŝƐƉŽƵdžŝůŝĂƌ ĚŐĂƌĚĂƵŶŚĂ͕^s͕ĚĞEĞǁĂƌŬ͕ĚĞϲϬ ĂŹŽƐ͕ĐŽŵŽŽďŝƐƉŽĚĞ&ĂůůZŝǀĞƌ͕ Massachuse#s, y aceptó la renuncia del ŽďŝƐƉŽ'ĞŽƌŐĞŽůĞŵĂŶ͕ĚĞϳϱĂŹŽƐ͕ĚĞů ŐŽďŝĞƌŶŽƉĂƐƚŽƌĂůĚĞůĂĚŝſĐĞƐŝƐ͘ů ŶŽŵďƌĂŵŝĞŶƚŽĨƵĞƉƵďůŝĐĂĚŽĞŶ tĂƐŚŝŶŐƚŽŶ͕ϬϯĚĞũƵůŝŽƉŽƌĞůDŽŶƐĞŹŽƌ͘ Angelo Acca)no, Encargado de Negocios ĞŶůĂŶƵŶĐŝĂƚƵƌĂĂƉŽƐƚſůŝĐĂĂůŽƐƐƚĂĚŽƐ hŶŝĚŽƐ͘ĚŐĂƌĚĂƵŶŚĂĨƵĞϮϭĚĞĂŐŽƐƚŽ ĚĞϭϵϱϯĞŶZŝĂĐŚĆŽĚĞ:ĂĐƵşƉĞ͕ĂŚŝĂ͕ ƌĂƐŝů͘KďƚƵǀŽƵŶĂůŝĐĞŶĐŝĂƚƵƌĂĞŶĂƌƚĞƐĚĞ ůĂhŶŝǀĞƌƐŝĚĂĚĂƚſůŝĐĂĚĞ^ĂůǀĂĚŽƌĚĞ ĂŚşĂ͕ƌĂƐŝů͕LJƵŶĂŵĂĞƐƚƌşĂĞŶĚŝǀŝŶŝĚĂĚ ĚĞů^ĞŵŝŶĂƌŝŽ/ŶŵĂĐƵůĂĚĂŽŶĐĞƉĐŝſŶ͕ĞŶDĂŚǁĂŚ͕EƵĞǀĂ :ĞƌƐĞLJ͘&ƵĞŽƌĚĞŶĂĚŽƐĂĐĞƌĚŽƚĞƉĂƌĂůĂ^ŽĐŝĞĚĂĚĚĞůĂƐ ŝǀŝŶĂƐsŽĐĂĐŝŽŶĞƐĞŶϭϵϴϮĞŶEĞǁĂƌŬLJŶŽŵďƌĂĚŽŽďŝƐƉŽ ĂƵdžŝůŝĂƌĚĞEĞǁĂƌŬĞŶϮϬϬϯ͘,ĂďůĂ/ŶŐůĠƐ͕ƉŽƌƚƵŐƵĠƐ͕ ĞƐƉĂŹŽůĞŝƚĂůŝĂŶŽ͘ĂƐŝŐŶĂĐŝŽŶĞƐĚĞůŽďŝƐƉŽĚĂƵŶŚĂ ĚĞƐƉƵĠƐĚĞůĂŽƌĚĞŶĂĐŝſŶŝŶĐůƵLJĞƌŽŶϭϵϴϮͲϭϵϴϳ͕ŝƌĞĐƚŽƌĚĞ sŽĐĂĐŝŽŶĞƐƉĂƌĂůĂ^ŽĐŝĞĚĂĚĚĞůĂŝǀŝŶĂsŽĐĂĐŝŽŶĞƐ͖ϭϵϴϯͲ ϭϵϴϲ͕ǀŝĐĂƌŝŽƉĂƌƌŽƋƵŝĂů͕^ĂŶEŝĐŽůĄƐ͕WĂůŝƐĂĚĞƐWĂƌŬ͕EƵĞǀĂ :ĞƌƐĞLJ͖ϭϵϴϲͲϭϵϴϳ͕ĂĚŵŝŶŝƐƚƌĂĚŽƌ͕^ĂŶEŝĐŽůĄƐ͕WĂůŝƐĂĚĞƐ WĂƌŬ͖ϭϵϴϳͲϭϵϵϰ͕ƉĂƐƚŽƌ͕^ĂŶEŝĐŽůĄƐ͕WĂůŝƐĂĚĞƐWĂƌŬ͖ϭϵϵϰͲ ϮϬϬϬ͕ŵĂĞƐƚƌŽĚĞŶŽǀŝĐŝŽƐLJĚŝƌĞĐƚŽƌĚĞůĂĂƐĂĚĞ &ŽƌŵĂĐŝſŶ^s͕&ůŽƌŚĂŵWĂƌŬ͕EĞǁ:ĞƌƐĞLJ͖ϭϵϵϴͲϮϬϬϬ͕ ^ĞĐƌĞƚĂƌŝŽĚĞůŽŶƐĞũŽĚĞůĂĞůĞŐĂĐŝſŶĚĞůĂ^ŽĐŝĞĚĂĚĚĞůĂƐ ŝǀŝŶĂƐsŽĐĂĐŝŽŶĞƐ͖ϮϬϬϬ͕ĞůƉĂƐƚŽƌ͕ůĂŝŐůĞƐŝĂĚĞ^ĂŶDŝŐƵĞů͕ EĞǁĂƌŬ͕ƐƵƉĞƌŝŽƌĚĞůĂĐŽŵƵŶŝĚĂĚƌĞůŝŐŝŽƐĂLJůĂĚĞůĞŐĂĚĂĚĞ ůŽƐƐƚĂĚŽƐhŶŝĚŽƐĚĞůĂ^ƵƉĞƌŝŽƌĂ'ĞŶĞƌĂůĚĞůĂ^ŽĐŝĞĚĂĚĚĞ ůĂƐŝǀŝŶĂƐsŽĐĂĐŝŽŶĞƐ͘>Ă^ŽĐŝĞĚĂĚĚĞůĂŝǀŝŶĂsŽĐĂĐŝŽŶĞƐ ĨƵĞĨƵŶĚĂĚĂĞŶ/ƚĂůŝĂĞŶϭϵϮϬƉĂƌĂƉƌŽŵŽǀĞƌůĂƐǀŽĐĂĐŝŽŶĞƐ LJƚƌĂďĂũĂƌĐŽŶ͘ůŽƐƉŽďƌĞƐ>ĂŝſĐĞƐŝƐĚĞ&ĂůůZŝǀĞƌŝŶĐůƵLJĞ ϴϮϰ͘ϱϱϭƉĞƌƐŽŶĂƐ͕ĐŽŶƵŶϯϳй͕ŽϯϬϮ͘ϰϴϰĚĞĞůůŽƐ͕ĐĂƚſůŝĐŽ͘ Día de Descanso: Hemos reservado un día en Cathedral Camp este domingo para la feligresía. Todos están invitados: el lago va a estar abierto para nadar, habrá asadores para hacer comida y comida disponible para comprar. Lleven sillas y los ancianos para que ellos también disfruten el día. ¡Vengan a disfrutar el día como familia! Segunda Colecta: La segunda colecta este fin es para la evangelización. El próximo domingo es para el mantenimiento de la parroquia. Gracias a todos. Consejo Financiero: Los miembros del Consejo Financiero se van a reunir con el Padre el próximo domingo 20 de julio a las 6:00 PM en la rectoría. “Panales y Cosas”: Gracias a las Sra. Linda Cheney y su Equipo que está ayudando a las madres en necesidad. Van a estar en el beisment el martes, 15 de julio desde las 10AM hasta las 1PM para familias necesitadas que reciben MA Salud & SNAP o WIC, o para familias que no pueden comprar la ropa. Traigan las tarjetas de Salud. Entren el beisment por la puerta de County Street. Están anotando nombres ahora para distribuir panales en septiembre. Coro Juvenil: El Coro juvenil ha decidido tomar unas semanas de descanso durante el verano. Se van a reunir al inicio de sept. Mayor información, hable con Teresa o Phil. Coro Parroquial: Iván invita a los interesados formar parte del coro que canta en la Misa dominical. No importa si pertenece a otros grupos, el coro parroquial esta abierta a todos. Recuerden: ¡cantar es orar dos veces! Consejo Parroquial: El Consejo trató el tema de “El Encuentro Mundial de Familias.” Habrá una reunión informacional para parejas que están interesados en asistir en el evento en Filalelphia en septiembre 2015. Habrá ayuda financiera para los que la necesitan. Para mayor información visite: www.worldmeeting2015 y hable con el Padre. Día para los Acólitos: Los acólitos de la parroquia están invitados al parque acuático “WaterWizz” el día martes 22 de Julio. Mayor información, hable con el Padre Pregana o con Sra. Carrie Pereira. Los demás jóvenes que quieren ir, pueden comprar el boleto de entrad ($25 o $17 para niños menos de 48”). La parroquia va a proveer el transporte. El volante está en las entradas del templo y las hojas de permiso en la sacristía. Jóvenes Hispanos: El Consejo Diocesano Hispano esta invitando los jóvenes hispanos a un encuentro con los demás jóvenes hispanos de la diócesis. El día será el sábado 26 de julio desde las 10AM hasta el 4 PM. Los que quieren participar deben devolver la hoja del permiso de sus padres. Hable con Karla Juarez o con el Padre. Retiro del Inicio: La Comunidad de San Miguel esta ofreciendo un Retiro de Inicio el sábado y domingo el 16-17 de agosto. Para mayor información, hable con Myra Carranza o un miembro de la comunidad. Campamento para niños: La Sociedad de San Vicente ofrece una oportunidad para unos niños (4-14 anos) participan en Cathedral Camp. Para mayor información, hable con Maureen Lewis 508-993-6965 sobre los requisitos. Beca: Ingles para los que hablan otras idiomas (ESOL) a Bristol Community College. Este programa es para ayudar a los que quieren aprender ingles. Hay 3 niveles disponible según su capacidad. Clases inician en verano. Los que cumplen el curso son elegibles para aplicar a estudiar por su equivalencia de la diploma del colegia. La parroquia ofrece una beca para estudiar! Hable con el Padre. Mass Intentions ~ Intenciones de Misa Saturday/sabado—7/12 4:00 PM Henrique & Filomena Barroco Sunday/domingo—7/13 8:30 AM Manuel, Maria, Angelina Almeida & Family 10:00 AM For the Parishioners/Por la Feligresia 11:30 AM Claribel Carranza de Guerra (3o Aniversario) 5:00 PM Mass at Cathedral Camp Monday/lunes—7/14 7:00 PM Maria da Lourdes Costa & Antonio dos Santos Tues/martes—7/15 9:00 AM Nicolau Vasconcellos Wednesday/miercoles—7/16 9:00 AM Flavia M. Samoes Thursday/jueves—7/17 2:30 PM Residents of the Jewish Nursing Home 7:00 PM Antonio, Manuel & Filomena Rodrigues Friday/viernes—7/18 9:00 AM Antonio & Cecilia Araujo 2:00 PM Residents of the Taber Nursing Home 5:00 PM Wedding: Luis & Danielle Serano Saturday/sabado—7/19 9:00 AM Luiz Soares 4:00 PM Donald Perry Sunday/domingo—7/20 8:30 AM Pedro Braga 10:00 AM Dennis Walsh 11:30 AM For the Parishioners/Por la Feligresia Hosts for the Month ~ Las Hostias del Mes Intencaõ Espesial Sanctuary Lamp ~ Lámpara del Santísimo Loretta Viens “So says the Pope” ~ “Así Dice El Papa” "The perfect family doesn't exist, nor is there a perfect husband or a perfect wife, and let's not talk about the perfect mother-inlaw! It's just us sinners. A healthy family life requires frequent use of three phrases: May I? Thank you, and I'm sorry, and never, never, never end the day without making peace." “Todos sabemos que no hay una familia perfecta, tampoco un esposo perfecto o una esposa perfecta. Por supuesto, ¡ni siquiera hablaríamos de una suegra perfecta! No terminen ningún día sin pedirse uno al otro perdón, sin tener paz en su casa y en su familia. Nunca terminen un solo día sin estar en paz con cada uno. Este es el secreto para preservar el amor. Este camino de todos los días tiene reglas que se pueden resumir en tres palabras, que ya dije a las familias, y que ustedes podrían aprender a usar entre ustedes: permiso, gracias, perdón.”