Volume 7, Issue 9 Pope to visit marginalized communities in Mexico By CAROL GLATZ Catholic News Service VATICAN CITY — Pope Francis will visit some of the most marginalized communities in Mexico and seek to bring hope to a country deeply suffering from crime, corruption and inequality when he visits in February. The Vatican announced Dec. 12 details about the pope’s Feb. 12-17 trip to Mexico, during which he will stop in six cities, including two in the state of Chiapas and — across from El Paso, Texas — Ciudad Juarez, which just five years ago was considered the “murder capital of the world” as drug cartels disputed a trafficking corridor. The pope said in November that he wanted to visit cities where St. John Paul II and Pope Benedict XVI never went. But he said he will stop at the capital of Mexico City to pray at the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe. “But if it wasn’t for Our Lady I wouldn’t” go there, he had told reporters. The pope will fly out of and return to Mexico City each day after celebrating Mass at the basilica on the second day of his trip. Over the following four days, he will visit a pediatric hospital in the capital as well as families and indigenous communities in the southernmost state of Chiapas, Mexico’s poorest state, which gained worldwide attention for the 1990s Zapatista rebellion. He will visit young people and religious in Morelia, celebrate Mass on the Mexican-U.S. border in Ciudad Juarez and visit its infamous Cereso state prison, where at least 20 people were killed during riots in 2009 triggered by rival gangs among the prisoners. “We are certain that the presence of the Holy Father will confirm us in the faith, hope and charity and will help the church move ahead in its permanent mission,” the Mexican bishops’ conference said in a Dec. 12 statement. “It will encourage Miracle APPROVED Serving More Than A Million Catholics in the Diocese of Brownsville Future saint reached out to the “poorest of the poor.” See story on page 7 CNS Photo by Nancy Wiechec Pope Francis has approved a miracle attributed to the intercession of Blessed Teresa of Kolkata, paving the way for her canonization in 2016. Mother Teresa is seen during a visit to Phoenix, Ariz., in 1989. » Please see Mexico p.12 JANUARY 2016 Giving witness to life Peaceful, prayerful march set for Jan. 30 By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic McALLEN — The diocesan Respect Life Apostolate is organizing a peaceful and prayerful march on Saturday, Jan. 30 in McAllen to spread the message of life in our community. The event will begin at 9 a.m. with opening prayers and remarks by Bishop Daniel E. Flores at St. Joseph the Worker Parish, 900 S. 23rd St. After the prayer service, a procession will depart the church and file into downtown. Throughout the procession, the Rosary will be prayed and hymns will be sung. The procession will pass by the local abortion facility and end at Sacred Heart Parish, 306 S. 15th St. with closing prayers. All are invited to give witness to life. Prayer groups, church groups, Catholic schools, families and individuals are welcomed and encouraged to attend. The march is held in reparation for the more than 57 million babies who have been killed in the United States since the Roe v. Wade Supreme Court ruling on Jan. 22, 1973 that legalized abortion. Pro-life advocates across the nation are observing the anniversary with events of prayer and action. “We sometimes have the idea that faith is just a personal thing, but faith is really what ties to each other and not only to God,” said Father Alejandro Flores, director of the diocesan Respect Life Apostolate and pastor of San Juan Diego Parish in McAllen. “We are connected … we are connected to this woman who is in a crisis pregnancy; we are connected to this couple who is facing a pregnancy they weren’t planning for; we are connected to the doctor who thinks he is helping by killing a child in the womb and we are connected to that child who is a creature of God who is called to take part in » Please see Pro-Life p.12 YEAR OF MERCY SPIRIT AWARDS THOSE WHO SERVE EN ENESPAÑOL ESPAÑOL Artículos sobre el viaje del papa a México, el Año de la Misericordia, y una marcha pacífica y de oración para dar testimonio a la vida “VERBUM MITTITUR SPIRANS AMOREM” (“The WORD is sent breathing love.”) Bishop opens Holy Doors; U.S. bishops offer reflection points Page 3 Catholic Schools honor dedicated individuals Page 6 Sister Colleen Materese, SSD Page 7 Páginas 9-10 2 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - La misericordia es una obra Como seres humanos tenemos sentimientos, actitudes, gustos y disgustos. ¿Creen que la misericordia se concentre en algunos de estos aspectos de nuestra vida? Yo no creo. De hecho podemos tener sentimientos misericordiosos, actitudes de compasión, podemos sentirnos mal mientras vemos los reportes de personas afligidas en la televisión, pero éstas posibilidades afectivas no abarcan lo que quiere decir la palabra “misericordia” porque la misericordia es una obra. Nadie puede negar que nuestro Señor Jesucristo fue misericordioso y claro está que esto no lo sabemos debido a que él guardaba ciertos sentimientos o actitudes. Lo que el Señor vivía no eran actitudes o sentimientos sino acciones. El Señor Jesús curaba a los enfermos, consolaba a los afligidos, enseñaba a los que no conocían los rasgos del Reino. Actuaba de manera misericordiosa. Sus obras nacían de la profundidad de su corazón misericordioso y esto es algo que todos deberíamos tener. Pero hay que decirlo claramente: entendemos el corazón de Jesús como fuente de misericordia porque ha mostrado tal fuente actuando concretamente por medio de sus obras. Sabemos que Dios es bueno y misericordioso porque actúa de manera buena y misericordiosa. Este buen Dios bajó del cielo para mostrarnos la bondad. Pero fíjense bien, la bondad se expresa como un remedio para nuestro sufrimiento y por eso confesamos que la bondad de Dios es para nosotros una misericordia. Una vez bajado del cielo, se dedicó a continuar la gran obra de misericordia. De hecho su obra sirve para identificarlo como el Cristo prometido. “En aquel tiempo, Juan envió a dos de sus discípulos a preguntar a Jesús: “¿Eres tú el que ha de venir o tenemos que esperar a otro?” (Vean San Lucas 7,19s.) ¿Y cuál fue la respuesta del Señor? “Vayan a contarle a Juan lo que han visto y oído: los ciegos ven, los cojos andan, los leprosos quedan limpios, los sordos oyen, los muertos resucitan y a los pobres se les anuncia el Evangelio”. La obra misericordiosa de Jesús lo identifica como el enviado prometido. Podríamos decir que todo el misterio de nuestra redención, Mercy is a Work A s human beings we have feelings, attitudes, likes and dislikes. Do we perhaps think that mercifulness is concentrated in one of these aspects of our life? I do not think so. In fact we can have merciful feelings, attitudes of compassion; we can feel bad while we see the reports about suffering people on the news, but these affective possibilities do not embrace what the word “mercy” means, because mercy is a work. No one can deny that our Lord Jesus Christ was merciful, and it is clear that we do not know this simply because he harbored certain feelings or attitudes. What the Lord lived were not simply attitudes or feelings, but actions. The Lord Jesus Christ healed the sick, comforted the afflicted, he taught those who didn’t know the ways of the Kingdom. He acted in a merciful manner. His deeds were born from the depths of his merciful heart and this is something we should all seek. But we must say it clearly: we know Jesus’s heart as a fount of mercy because he showed this fount by his concrete actions. We know that God is good and merciful because he acts in a good and merciful way. The good God descended from heaven to show us his goodness. But pay close attention, this goodness is expressed as a remedy to our suffering, and that is why we confess that the goodness of God is, for us, a mercy. Once descended from heaven, he continued to dedicate himself to the grand work of mercy. In fact, his deeds helped to iden- desde la Encarnación hasta la derrama de sangre en la Cruz y la derrama del Espíritu el día de Pentecostés, fue el gran desarrollo de una inmensa obra de misericordia divina. Todo para remediar lo que nos aflige. ¿Y qué es lo que nos aflige? Pues claro, la falta de ser misericordiosos. Tener fe en esta obra de Jesús significa abrazar la bondad de Dios manifestada en nuestro Señor. La señal eficaz de que hemos abrazado al Señor se manifiesta en nuestra vida renovada en la gracia que nos anima a seguir su camino de misericordia. Ser renovados como agentes de misericordia es el efecto principal de la misericordia de Cristo dentro de nosotros. Él desea sanar nuestra falta de misericordia. El sentirnos mal al ver un sufrido en la tele no cuenta para contarnos entre los misericordiosos. Quizás nos sentimos bien al sentirnos mal. Pero tengan cuidado con eso pues el mundo puede sentirse mal al ver el afligido pero muchas veces no hace nada para remediar la situación. La actitud no nos hace misericordiosos. El buscar como MOST REVEREND DANIEL E. FLORES BISHOP OF BROWNSVILLE tify him as the promised Christ. “In those days, John summoned two of his disciples and sent them to ask Jesus: “Are you the one who is to come, or should we look for another?” (See Saint Luke 7, 19.) And what was the Lord’s response? “Go and tell John what you have seen and heard: the blind see, the lame walk, lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, the poor have the good news proclaimed to them.” Jesus’s merciful actions identify him as the One promised and sent. We could say that all the whole mystery of our redemption, from the Incarnation to the pouring out of his blood on the Cross and the pouring out of the Holy Spirit on the day of Pentecost, was the grand unfolding of an immense act of divine mercy. All this is for the healing of our afflictions. And, what is it that afflicts us? Well, put simply, our lack of mercifulness. To have faith in Jesus’s great work means to embrace God’s kindness manifested in our Lord. The effective sign that we have embraced the Lord shows itself in our aliviar el sufrimiento es el paso que Dios nos pide para entrar al misterio que Él empezó con su Encarnación. “¿Qué debemos hacer?”, le preguntaba la gente a Juan el Bautista cuando hablaba de la próxima llegada del Cristo. Él replicaba: “Quien tenga dos túnicas, que dé una al que no tiene ninguna, y quien tenga comida, que haga lo mismo”. (Vean San Lucas 3, 10s.) Dios tomó nuestra naturaleza para aplicar una unción sobre nuestras heridas y al sentirnos capaces de salir al encuentro del que sufre participamos en su naturaleza divina. El Señor es misericordioso y quiere un pueblo misericordioso. Busquemos durante el Año de la Misericordia no sólo pensar en cosas piadosas sobre la misericordia sino más bien busquemos cómo atender a los que sufren. Si la obra misericordiosa de Jesús lo identificó como el Cristo, nuestras obras misericordiosas nos deben de identificar como Cristianos. Bishop Daniel E. Flores Publisher Catholic Diocese of Brownsville www.cdob.org Brenda Nettles Riojas Editor Subscription rate $15 per year • $17 outside of Texas $25 out of U.S. The Valley Catholic, a publication of the Diocese of Brownsville, is published monthly South Texas Circulation Circulation Member of the Catholic Press Assocition The Valley Catholic email: [email protected] Follow us on Facebook Advertising Evana A. Zamora (956) 784-5038 Gustavo Morales (956) 266-1527 Gilbert Saenz (956) 451-5416 Michael Kent (956) 566-7075 renewed life in that grace that encourage us to seek the way of mercy. To be renewed as agents of mercy is the principal effect of the mercy of Christ working within us. He wishes to heal our lack of mercy. Feeling bad when we see someone suffering on TV doesn’t mean that we are counted among the merciful. Maybe we feel good when we feel bad. But be careful with that, because the world can feel badly when seeing the afflicted, but many times does nothing to remedy the situation. An attitude doesn’t make us merciful. Searching for ways to alleviate suffering is the step that God asks us to take in order for us to enter the mystery that he began with his Incarnation. “What shall we do?” People asked this of John the Baptist when he spoke of the proximate arrival of the Christ. He responded: “Whoever has two cloaks should share with the person who has none. And whoever has food should do likewise”. (See Saint Luke 3, 10.) God took our nature to apply an anointing over our wounds and by being able to go out and encounter those who suffer, we participate in his divine nature. The Lord is merciful and he wants a merciful people. Let us try, during the Year of Mercy, not simply to think pious things related to mercy, but rather to search for how we can attend to those who suffer. If Jesus’s merciful works identified him as the Christ, our merciful works ought to identify us as Christians. Corporal works of mercy 1. Visit the sick 2. Feed the hungry 3. Give drink to the thirsty 4. Shelter the homeless 5. Clothe the naked 6. Visit the imprisoned 7. Bury the dead Spiritual works of mercyy 1. Teach (with humility) the one who doesn’t know 2. Give counsel to the troubled 3. Correct (charitably) the one who is mistaken 4. Forgive (from the heart) the one who offends us 5. Comfort the sorrowful 6. Bear with patience the faults of others 7. Pray to God for the living and the dead Las obras de misericordia corporales: 1. Visitar a los enfermos 2. Dar de comer al hambriento 3. Dar de beber al sediento 4. Dar posada al peregrino 5. Vestir al desnudo 6. Visitar a los presos 7. Enterrar a los difuntos Las obras de misericordia espirituales: 700 N. Virgen de San Juan Blvd., San Juan, TX 78589-3042 Telephone: 956/781-5323 • Fax: 956/784-5082 Rose Ybarra Assistant Editor January 2016 To read the Bishop’s blog, En Pocas Palabras, visit http://bishopflores. blogspot.com 1. Enseñar (con humildad) al que no sabe 2. Dar buen consejo al que lo necesita 3. Corregir (con caridad) al que se equivoca 4. Perdonar (de corazón) al que nos ofende 5. Consolar al triste 6. Sufrir con paciencia los defectos del prójimo 7. Rezar a Dios por los vivos y por los difuntos. Bishop Flores’ Schedule - January 2016 Jan. 3 4 p.m. Brownsville Misa de la Sagrada Familia (MFC) at St. Joseph Jan. 10 1 p.m. San Juan Mass at Basilica Jan. 17 3 p.m. Peñitas Mass for Feast of Santo Niño at St. Anne Jan. 23 1 p.m. Weslaco Talk at 6th Annual Divine Mercy Conference Jan. 29 6 p.m. McAllen Spirit Award Banquet at Our Lady of Sorrows School Jan 30 9 a.m. McAllen Pro-Life Rally – Procession at St. Juan Diego January 2016 DIOCESE - The Valley Catholic How to live the Year of Mercy 3 »Solemnity of Mary U.S. bishops offer reflection themes for Jubilee year U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops The Jubilee Year of Mercy began on Dec. 8, 2015, the 50th anniversary of the closing of the Second Vatican Council. Here are a few important themes for reflection during this important year. Jesus is the “face” of the Father’s mercy Jesus of Nazareth, Pope Francis writes in Misericordiae Vultus, the Bull of Indiction of the Extraordinary Jubilee of Mercy, is the “face” of the Father’s mercy— he reveals the mercy of God by his words, actions, and person. We follow Jesus’ example when we open ourselves to the Father’s mercy by looking “sincerely” into the eyes of our brothers and sisters, including those “who are denied their dignity.” How have you experienced the Father’s mercy in your own life? How might Jesus be calling you to look “sincerely” into the eyes of those who are denied their dignity? Mercy is “the beating heart of the Gospel” Pope Francis writes: “It is absolutely essential for the Church and for the credibility of her message that she herself live and testify to mercy.” Mercy, he says, is “the beating heart of the Gospel” (Misericordiae Vultus). To live mercy, we must rediscover both the spiritual works of mercy (counsel the doubtful, instruct Courtesy photo The Valley Catholic Bishop Daniel E. Flores officially opened the holy doors at the Immaculate Conception Cathedral in Brownsville on Dec. 13, 2015. The holy doors mark the cathedral as a special place of pilgrimage during the Jubilee Year of Mercy which began Dec. 8, 2015 and continues through Nov. 20, 2016. The bishop also opened the holy doors at the Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle – National Shrine on Dec. 20. the ignorant, admonish sinners, comfort the afflicted, forgive offences, bear patiently those who do us ill, and pray for the living and the dead), and the corporal works of mercy (feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, clothe the naked, welcome the stranger, heal the sick, visit the imprisoned, and bury the dead). Which spiritual works of mercy might Christ be calling you to practice? Which corporal works of mercy? Mercy “demands justice” “True mercy, the mercy God gives to us and teaches us, demands justice, it demands that the poor find the way to be poor no longer,” Pope Francis notes. “It asks us, the Church, us, the City of Rome, it asks the institutions — to ensure that no one ever again stand in need of a soupkitchen, of makeshift-lodgings, of a service of legal assistance in order to have his legitimate right recognized to live and to work, to be fully a person” (Address to Jesuit Refugee Services, 9/10/13). In your own life, and in your faith community, how do you work for justice? Do you seek to address the root causes of problems that affect those who are vulnerable? The Valley Catholic The Immaculate Conception Cathedral in Brownsville has been placed under the patronage of St. Joseph to guide the parish during the Jubilee Year. Sixth Annual Divine Mercy Conference set for Jan. 23 Dramatization about St. Faustina’s life, devotion scheduled The Valley Catholic WESLACO — Fountain of Mercy Ministries, a local apostolate, is hosting its Sixth Annual Divine Mercy Conference on Saturday, Jan. 23 at the Weslaco ISD Performing Arts Center, 506 E. 6th St. Doors open at 6 a.m. and the event begins at 8 a.m. The mission of the apostolate is to spread the message and devotion of Divine Mercy. Keynote speakers are Bishop Daniel E. Flores and Father Chris Alar of the Congregation of Marian Fathers of the Immaculate Conception of the Most Blessed Virgin Mary. Father Alar is the director of the Marian Helpers from the National Shrine of Divine Mercy in Stockbridge, Mass. The Marian Helpers are laypersons who support the mission of the Marian Fathers in their works of mercy and evangelization. The group includes about 1.5 million members, according to the Marian Fathers website. At the conference, Father Alar will speak about St. Faustina Kowalska’s role as the great apostle of Divine Mercy for our times and on the devotional practices given by our Merciful Lord to our aching world Courtesy Photo The play, Faustina: Messenger of Divine Mercy, which is touring throughout the United States, will be presented at the Sixth Annual Divine Mercy Conference on Saturday, Jan. 23 at the Weslaco ISD Performing Arts Center. through St. Faustina. In addition, he will lead a Eucharistic Holy Hour with Benediction. This year, the conference will also include a dramatic presentation about St. Faustina’s life and the backstory of the Divine Mercy devotion. The play, Faustina: Messenger of Divine Mercy, is touring throughout the United States and stars Maria Vargo as Sister Faustina, the 20th century Polish mystic whose personal encounters with Jesus have fostered the Divine Mercy devotion. To prepare for her role as Sister Faustina, Vargo spent five days in community with the saint’s order, the Sisters of Our Lady of Mercy, at their motherhouse in Dorchester, Mass., according to Saint Luke Productions, the Battle Ground, Wash.based company that is producing the play. Sister Faustina was a young, uneducated nun living in a convent in Krakow, Poland at the time of World War I. When she was working in the convent’s kitchen and garden, she received revelations or messages from Jesus. At Jesus’ request, Sister Faustina recorded those experiences in notebooks, which are now known as the Diary of Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska: Divine Mercy in My Soul. Pope John Paul II canonized Sister Faustina in 2000. Recognizing the importance of the message in her Diary, the pope called her “the great apostle of Divine Mercy in our time.” A second performance of the play is scheduled for Sunday, Jan. 24 and is targeted towards the youth and those who are unable to attend the conference. The play is suitable for ages 13 and older. Tickets are $15 for adults, ages 20 and older and $10 for teens. Online registration is recommended. For more information on the play, visit www.DivineMercyDrama.com. The conference registration fee of $25 includes a continental breakfast and lunch. Admission is free for priests, deacons and religious brothers and sisters. Organizers ask that everyone attending the conference complete the registration process, even those attending at no cost, for planning purposes. Registration for the conference and Sunday’s presentation of Faustina: Messenger of Divine Mercy is available online at www.fomm. us. Contact Yolanda Ramos at (956) 454-2103 for more information. Jan. 1 is a holy day of obligation The Valley Catholic The Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God, Thursday, Jan. 1, is a holy day of obligation. The oldest major feast honoring Our Lady, the solemnity recognizes the motherhood of Mary. The celebration dates to the fifth century following the Council of Ephesus, which declared that as the mother of Christ, Mary was the “Theotokos” or “God-bearer.” Jan. 1 is also the Octave of Christmas and the World Day of Peace. Catholics are obliged to attend Mass on holy days of obligation. The faithful may contact their churches for Mass times on Jan. 1 or for Vigil Masses on Dec. 31. »News Briefs Youth 2000 Retreat set for Jan. 8-10 The Valley Catholic Holy Spirit Parish in McAllen, located at 2201 Martin Ave., is sponsoring a Youth 2000 retreat Jan, 8-10. All youth and young adults, ages 13-30, are invited. Church groups and Catholic schools are encouraged and welcomed to attend. Led by the New York-based Franciscan Friars of the Renewal, the retreat will feature Mass, Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, Confession, prayer, talks, music and fellowship. The goal of the retreat is to help young people develop a deep and lasting relationship with Jesus Christ. The cost is $25 for the weekend, meals included. For more information, call (956) 631-5295. Order your CRS Rice Bowl todayy Visit sit www.crsricebowl.org www cr crsri sriceb cebowl owl o ffor prayer services and reflections to help live Lent more profoundly. For more information or for CRS Rice Bowl resources, see www.crsricebowl.org or contact Miguel Santos at msantos@cdob. org or (956) 784.5093. DIOCESE »Women en la Frontera The Valley Catholic - January 4 On turning 50 & lessons learned I was 26 years old when my mother died of cancer at age 50. In the aftermath of her passing and fearful of the limited time I might have, I learned to value each moment. I tried to fit as much as possible into each year. Now as I reach the half century point of my life on January 17 I am grateful for the adventure God has granted me. The journey did not come without turbulence and challenges, but the dark days did not swallow me. I am alive, and I feel even more alive because I am not afraid of death. Yes, I have a growing list of what I would like to do and I certainly need more time to try to do it all, but I embrace each day as it comes. A half-century of stumbles and falls amidst the joys and exhilarating surprises provide for some lessons learned. 1. Be grateful. 2. Don’t take anything for granted, especially people. 3. Don’t be afraid. There are not enough words to enumerate all I am grateful for in my days. When my daughter was younger, we played a game to see who could list the most blessings in our day. What a joy to see how endless the list became. Principal on my list each day are the people in my life, namely my husband, son and daughter along with my friends who inspire me forward by their words of wisdom, encouragement and example. I am also grateful for the capacity to love and to count Brenda Nettles Riojas Editor of The Valley Catholic myself as a lifelong learner, a citizen of the world with a growing curiosity about everything before me. While I am not thrilled with some of the physical changes that come with aging – the added weight, new wrinkles and greys, I am thankful that with age comes wisdom, a greater awareness of what matters. In Proverbs 3:13 we read, “Happy the one who finds wisdom, the one who gains understanding!” This wisdom helps us prioritize what’s important in our lives. It teaches us not to take anything for granted. This helps me live in the moment, being present to people, recognizing that it’s not about me, but about serving others. It also means we can’t take our health for granted. We can’t stop the aging process, but we can take steps to eat healthier and exercise. Carmen Tafolla, the Poet Laureate for Texas, wrote an open letter to the people in San Antonio when she was diagnosed with cancer urging people to take steps to stay healthy. We take extreme measures to fight cancer once it is diagnosed. Why not take action aimed at prevention? Wisdom, which comes from trusting God, helps us let go of our fears. Childhood experiences created a river of fears in me which have taken this half-century to overcome. How refreshing to leave those fears behind, to accept who I am with all my imperfections. Surrendering to the Lord makes the journey less worrisome. Yes, we may stumble along the way. There will be espinitas, but it is part of the growing. Not only am learning to speak up for my beliefs, these days I am more motivated to try something new, especially if it scares me. In 2015, I wrote about one such moment when fear prompted me to accept an invitation to turn some of my poems about my mother into a short play. Letting go of fear has been part of my faith journey. I have stopped worrying about how many more tomorrows wait. I start this New Year and new chapter ready with anticipation for what comes next, ready to say “yes” to God’s calling. I realize, as St. Ignatius of Loyola notes in his spiritual exercises, I am a work in progress. I also know death does not have the last word. As I wrote in my death poem, “La muerte no triunfa” – “We don’t know when / the ink will dry in our hands, / when the words will stop / mid breath. But we know the hour / will come, the hour for our story’s last page.” In the meantime, I pray my days be an offering and that they may be pleasing to God. »Family Life ‘Happy Hour’ at home, with family One of my happiest hours of the day is the hour I spend in the kitchen preparing our family dinner. It is truly a “Happy Hour.” I am very grateful to God that I have a job/ ministry that I really enjoy and my days are filled with meaningful work and with many opportunities to serve God by serving my family, by serving the Church/ Community, and by serving others in need. And although I really enjoy what I do during work hours, I look forward to preparing our family dinner which has always been relaxing for me. It is enjoyable for many reasons. 1.I am a planner by nature and for more than thirty years, always prepare a menu for the week taking into consideration what evening commitments I have; either work commitments or if Mauri and I have a Sponsor Couple Session with an engaged couple. I often plan crock pot dinners on those days which can include chicken soup; roast chicken and sweet potatoes; tortilla soup, or crock pot lasagna. Since making last minute decisions on what to cook for dinner is not my forte, pre-planning takes the stress out of meal preparation. I am reminded of a quote from Pope Francis: “In Jesus, God himself became Emmanuel, God-with-us, the God who walks alongside us, who gets involved in our lives, in our homes, in the midst of our “pots and pans”, as Saint Teresa of Jesus liked to say.” 2. I don’t enjoy department store shopping but I do enjoy grocery shopping. I prepare my grocery list from the menu prepared so as not to over buy and Lydia Pesina Director, Family Life Office keep produce fresh and expenses within the weekly grocery budget. It is also an opportunity to ask the other family members what they need from the grocery store and provide for one another’s daily needs. “Love is shown by little things, by attention to small daily signs which make us feel at home. Faith grows when it is lived and shaped by love. That is why our families, our homes, are true domestic churches.”(Pope Francis) 3. Another reason I enjoy my cooking “Happy Hour” is that it gives me a chance to either be in solitude and think and ponder while I cook, or a chance to dialogue with someone in the family and have them help out. I see it as a win-win situation. If my daughter comes to ask me something while I cook and I ask her to help; if she helps, it gives us some bonding time; if she decides to leave me alone, I have my quiet time to enjoy. Again, another one of Pope Francis’ “nuggets of wisdom”: “God is good, all that is true, all that is beautiful brings us to God. Because God is good, God is beautiful, God is the truth.” “But the most beautiful thing that God made, the Bible says, was the family.” 4. Family meals around the table (without electronics) is very important to us. For most of our married life, Mauri and I have used cloth napkins for every meal whether we are four or 24 sharing a meal. The dishes are simple as are the meals but the gathering around the table to pray, to eat, to talk, to share, to disagree, to reconcile, and to start over again is priceless. Family life is messy, but the sacredness of life is in the messiness of our everyday life as a family. I was touched by two family stories at two different parish presentations. At St. John the Baptist parish, a woman shared that her husband worked out of town in construction and because her children have different activities daily, they didn’t often get a chance to eat together, but at 9 p.m. she gathers everyone around the dining room table, serves oranges or watermelon, and they all “face-time” with the dad. At St. Joseph the Worker in McAllen a man told me he had just quit his job because his schedule was changed to evenings and he said he was strong enough to find another job and was not willing to compromise his family time. Again, our wonderful Pope Francis reminds us with these words, “We cannot call any society healthy when it does not leave real room for family life.” “Perfect families do not exist. This must not discourage us. Quite the opposite. Love is something we learn; love is something we live; love grows as it is ‘forged’ by the concrete situations which each particular family experiences. Love is born and constantly develops amid lights and shadows.” May you each enjoy your “Happy Hour.” 2016 New norms help couples with annulment process The Valley Catholic VATICAN CITY — As reformed rules for marriage annulment cases came into effect, Pope Francis said the new norms are to be adhered to in order to help bring healing to failed marriages. With the release of two papal documents in September 2015, the pope rewrote a section of canon law with the aim of making the Catholic Church’s marriage annulment process quicker, cheaper and much more of a pastoral ministry. A juridical process is always necessary for making accurate judgments, and the new rules were not about promoting annulments, but rather about helping Catholic couples with the process so they would not be “oppressed by the shadow of doubt” for prolonged periods, he had said in the papal documents. The papal documents, “Mitis Iudex Dominus Iesus” (“The Lord Jesus, the Gentle Judge”) for the Latin-rite church and “Mitis et misericors Iesus” (“The Meek and Merciful Jesus”) for the Eastern Catholic churches, went into effect Dec. 8, the opening day of the Year of Mercy. Before the reformed rules, in the Diocese of Brownsville, for example, an annulment case could take six to 12 months to complete at the first instance level at the diocesan tribunal and then an additional six to 12 months at the second instance level in San Antonio. “And in many cases, it was clear that the marriage was invalid but the case still took more than two years to complete,” said Father Oliver Angel, judicial vicar for the diocesan tribunal. “They (the Appellate Court in San Antonio) were just overwhelmed with too many cases.” Under the new rules, the vast majority of cases will no longer have to go through San Antonio and will be completed locally by the diocesan tribunal. Father Angel surmises annulment cases will now take an average of nine months and in some cases, as little as 45 days. Also, the cost of an annulment was $500, under the new rules, the process is free. Those who are interested in obtaining an annulment should make an appointment at their parish. A priest, deacon, or a trained layperson will serve as an advocate and assist the individual through the process. “When a person is seeking an annulment, we understand they are hurting,” Father Angel said. “Through this process we are not only seeking justice, but healing.” Father Angel said there will be a period of adjustment for the diocesan tribunal as the new rules take effect and he asks the public to be patient. The tribunal receives about 80-90 annulment cases annually. “It is a big change and we still have a lot of questions, but we will try our best and trust in the Holy Spirit,” he said. Among the reforms introduced by Mitis Iudex Dominus Iesus are four changes that address the Pope’s desire to expedite the process in processing cases involving an allegation of marriage nullity. Please feel free to contact the Tribunal (956) 784-5070 if you have any questions or wish to submit a petition to the Tribunal for consideration. With information from Catholic News Service. 1. The removal of the requirement of two affirmative decisions before the parties can enter a new marriage in the Church. • Under the new norms, an affirmative decision rendered by our Tribunal is sufficient. If NO APPEALS, case will be closed and Final Decree will be issued upon request. • If any party APPEALS, case will be mailed to the Appellate Court in San Antonio for review. 2. Process is Free • All tribunal cases are free of charge: Formal Cases, Lack of Canonical Forms, Radical Sanations, Ligamens, etc. 3. Certain cases can now be decided directly by the diocesan bishop through an expedited process. • 45 Days • BEGIN AFTER we receive all legal documents, Petitioner’s Declaration and the Respondent’s Declaration. • The evidence of nullity in such cases must be very CLEAR AND STRAIGHTFORWARD. • Both parties MUST BE IN AGREEMENT with the grounds and firmly convinced their union was null. • A written declaration is REQUIRED from the Respondent. If Respondent does not participate in the process, case will follow the formal process. 4. Under the new norms, the tribunal of a Petitioner is fully competent to accept his or her petition. • Previously, the Respondent’s Judicial Vicar had to give consent and the parties had to live in the same episcopal conference if the marriage did not take place in the Petitioner’s diocese. • As long as the Petitioner lives within our Diocese, the Tribunal will accept and process the case. January 2016 FAITH - The Valley Catholic »Sunday Readings The Word of God in the Life and Mission of the Church JANUARY 3 (The Epiphany of the Lord) Reading 1 IS 60:1-6 Responsorial Psalm PS 72:1-2, 7-8, 10-11, 12-13 Reading 2 EPH 3:2-3A, 5-6 Alleluia MT 2:2 Gospel MT 2:1-12 JANUARY 10 (The Baptism of the Lord) Reading 1 IS 42:1-4, 6-7 Or IS 40:1-5, 9-11 Responsorial Psalm PS 29:1-2, 3-4, 3, 9-10 Or PS 104:1B-2, 3-4, 24-25, 27-28, 29-30 Reading 2 ACTS 10:34-38 Or TI 2:11-14; 3:4-7 Alleluia CF. MK 9:7 Or CF. LK 3:16 Gospel LK 3:15-16, 21-22 JANUARY 17 (Second Sunday in Ordinary Time) Reading 1 IS 62:1-5 Responsorial Psalm PS 96:1-2, 2-3, 7-8, 9-10 Reading 2 1 COR 12:4-11 Alleluia CF. 2 THES 2:14 Gospel JN 2:1-11 JANUARY 24 (Third Sunday in Ordinary Time) Reading 1 NEH 8:2-4A, 5-6, 8-10 Responsorial Psalm PS 19:8, 9, 10, 15 Reading 2 1 COR 12:12-30 Or 1 COR 12:12-14, 27 Alleluia CF. LK 4:18 Gospel LK 1:1-4; 4:14-21 JANUARY 31 (Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time) Reading 1 JER 1:4-5, 17-19 Responsorial Psalm PS 71:1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 15-17 Reading 2 1 COR 12:31—13:13 Or 1 COR 13:4-13 Alleluia LK 4:18 Gospel LK 4:21-30 The word of the Lord abides for ever. This word is the Gospel which was preached to you. (1 Pet 1:25; cf. Is 40:8). With this assertion from the First Letter of Saint Peter, which takes up the words of the Prophet Isaiah, we find ourselves before the mystery of God, who has made himself known through the gift of his word. This word, which abides for ever, entered into time. God spoke his eternal Word humanly; his Word “became flesh.” (Jn 1:14). This is the good news. This is the proclamation which has come down the centuries to us day. 5 »Making Sense of Bioethics A higher standard than for cats and dogs S ometimes people will point out: “We euthanize our pets when they suffer, and they are clearly creatures of God, so why can’t we euthanize a sick and suffering person who wants it? It seems like we treat our dogs and cats better than we treat our suffering family members.” The way we treat animals, however, should not be the measure of how we treat fellow human beings. We keep animals as pets, but we don’t do the same with humans. We use animals to make clothing and food, but we don’t do the same with humans. For all our similarities to the rest of the animal kingdom, we are aware of a fundamental difference in kind between ourselves and our furry friends. We are not meant to die just as animals do, or be euthanized as they are. The death of a human is a more complex event that has other important realities associated with it. In euthanizing a cat or dog, an assessment about the nature of the creature is rolled up into our decision to proceed. Our pets seem to process the world around them mostly in terms of pleasure and pain, oscillating between these two poles as they instinctively gravitate towards pleasurable experiences, and engage in “mechanisms of avoidance” when they come up against pain or discomfort. Animals lack that uniquely human power to reason about, resign themselves to, and allow good to be drawn out of pain. Animals can’t do much else in the face of their suffering apart from trying to skirt around it, escape the situation, or passively endure it. Because of our strong sense of empathy, humans find it more emotionally acceptable to “put the animal to sleep,” rather than watch it suffer a long and Tadeusz Pacholczyk Priest of the Diocese of Fall River, Mass. agonizing death. But it would be false empathy, and a false compassion, to promote the killing or suicide of suffering family members. As human beings, we have real moral duties, and better options, in the face of our own pain and tribulations. On an instinctual level, we tend to recoil and do our best to avoid suffering, just like animals. But we are able to respond in a way that animals cannot, and even willingly accept our suffering, which is unavoidably part of the fabric of our human existence. None of us can completely avoid suffering, even if it may be purely internal, like the agony that comes from loneliness, isolation, depression, or rejection. Every person must, in one way or another, encounter suffering along the trajectory of life, and human maturity is partially measured by how we deal with that suffering. Those who live with serious disabilities, through their determined and beauty-filled lives and example, remind us every day of the good that can be drawn from suffering. The way they deal with their struggles manifests the depths of what it is to be authentically human. It is precisely disability, with its disfigurement, impairment, vulnerability and dependence, that challenges us to grasp the outlines of our human journey in a less superficial way, and to value human life and protect human dignity in sickness as well as in health. Victoria Kennedy spoke to this same point when describing Senator Kennedy’s final months: “When my husband was first diagnosed with cancer, he was told that he had only two to four months to live. … But that prognosis was wrong. Teddy lived 15 more productive months.… Because that first dire prediction of life expectancy was wrong, I have 15 months of cherished memories. … When the end finally did come—natural death with dignity—my husband was home, attended by his doctor, surrounded by family and our priest.” As human beings, we reach beyond the limits that suffering imposes by a conscious decision to accept and grow through it, like the athlete or the Navy seal who pushes through the limits of his exhaustion during training. We enter into an awareness of something greater behind the veil of our suffering when we come to accept it as an integral component of our human condition. We also give positive example, strength and encouragement to the younger generation as they witness our response to, and acceptance of, our own suffering. Our trials and tribulations also teach us about our reliance on God and the illusions of selfreliance. On the other hand, if our fear of suffering drives us to constant circumlocution and relentless avoidance, even to the point of short-circuiting life itself through euthanasia or physician-assisted suicide, we can miss those mysterious but privileged moments that invite us to become more resplendently human, with all the messiness, awkwardness and agonies that are invariably part of that process. Living the Corporal Works of Mercy I n this Jubilee Year of Mercy, Pope Francis wants to direct special attention to “Jesus Christ as the face of the Father’s mercy.” These words sum up the mystery of the Christian faith and the fact “the Lord Jesus by his words, actions and his entire person reveals to us the mercy of God.” (Misericordiae Vultus,1). The Holy Father sees the need for the Church to live out the loving mercy that God has for us and invites all Catholics to respond to God’s loving mercy towards us by acting in the same way towards all those we meet. Every Christian (by virtue of their baptism) is called to serve one another by living Jesus’ example of a life based on his teachings. Jesus teaches service should be an attitude as well as a way of life. One thing is to understand the Gospel message and another is to live out the message of the Gospel by fulfilling the mission of Christ’s mercy. Living out the works of mercy is a lifelong commitment to the Gospel of the Lord Jesus, and the Gospel of Matthew (chapter 25) lays out perfectly how in the end each one of us will be judged based on the way we have lived here on earth. The Corporal Works of Mercy are charitable actions by which we come to the aid of our neighbor in his spiritual and bodily necessities (see Catechism of the Catholic Deacon Luis Zuniga Director, Office for Pastoral Planning & San Juan Diego Ministry Institute. Church, 2447). The following are examples of ways we can live and put into practice the Corporal Works of Mercy. 1. To feed the hungry. Everyone needs food for their body. It is an act of love to help others to obtain their bodily nourishment, especially those in greatest need. [Examples: Bringing food to the poor, donating money to buy food for the poor, sharing your food or candy, helping to shop for groceries, helping with the cooking, doing dishes, waiting on company.] 2. To give drink to the thirsty. What is said of food also applies to drink. [Examples:Giving someone a drink on a hot day, giving the baby its bottle, pouring drinks at the table, lifting up a young child to get a drink at a water fountain or providing someone a drink] 3. To clothe the naked. Everyone needs clothing for warmth, protection, modesty and dignity. It is an act of love to help others obtain clothing, especially those who need help. [Examples: Bringing clothes to a needy family, sharing outgrown clothes with another family in need, bringing clothes to a clothing drive and or the parish works of mercy, helping a young child or elderly person get dressed, helping with laundry at home.] 4. To visit the imprisoned. Those in prison and many other persons and their families suffer hindrances or dangers to freedom. Helping them, visiting them or protecting them is an act of love. [Examples: Visiting prisoners, fighting for humane treatment for the imprisoned, helping to care for the families of the imprisoned.] 5. To shelter the homeless. Everyone needs shelter. Some people live in cardboard homes; some people live in homes made of discarded materials; many people are homeless. To help the homeless obtain shelter or to preserve it is an act of love. [Examples: Bringing others to your home in times of fire, floods, or other disaster. Working at or supporting a homeless shelter.] 6. To visit the sick. Helping sick people in any way is an act of love. [Examples: Visiting someone in the hospital, nursing home or hospice. Visiting someone who is sick at home or the elderly who are shut-ins. Running an errand for an elderly or sick person. Reading to the sick or elderly or spending time with someone who is lonely or depressed.] 7. To bury the dead. It is an act of love to show respect for the » Please see Works of Mercy p.12 Courtesy photo St. John Neumann is the first United States bishop to be canonized. He was elected bishop of Philadelphia in 1852. »Feast Day Jan. 5 Spotlight on St. John Neumann Catholic News Agency John Neumann was born on March 28, 1811, in Bohemia, now part of the Czech Republic. After college, John entered the seminary. When the time came for his ordination, the bishop decided there would be no more ordinations. It is difficult to imagine now, but Bohemia was overstocked with priests. John wrote to bishops all over Europe but the story was the same everywhere — no one wanted any more priests. John was sure he was called to be a priest but all the doors to follow that vocation seemed to close in his face. But John didn’t give up. He had learned English by working in a factory with English-speaking workers so he decided to go to the United States and request to be ordained there. He walked most of the way to France and then boarded a ship to New York. John arrived in Manhattan on June 9, 1836, where he was gladly welcomed by Bishop John Dubois, who at that time had only 36 priests for the 200,000 Catholics living in the state of New York and part of New Jersey. Just 16 days after his arrival, John, who spoke at least six languages, was ordained a priest and sent to Buffalo. Father John established himself in a small log parish house. He hardly ever lit a fire and often lived on only bread and water. His church had no steeple or floor but that didn’t matter because John spent most of his time traveling from village to village, climbing mountains to visit the sick, staying in garrets and taverns to teach, and celebrating Mass at kitchen tables. He joined the Redemptorist order and continued his missionary work until he was elected bishop of Philadelphia in 1852. As bishop, Neumann built 50 churches and began the construction of a cathedral. He opened almost 100 schools, and the number of parochial school students grew from 500 to 9,000. He died suddenly on January 5, 1860. He is the first American bishop to be beatified. He was canonized by Pope Paul VI in 1977. His body lies in a glass-enclosed reliquary under the main altar at the National Shrine of St. John Neumann in Philadelphia. 6 DIOCESE Ricardo Aguirre Our Lady of Sorrows School, McAllen The Valley Catholic - January SPIRIT awards diocese Of brownsvillE 2016 The Valley Catholic Donna Barron St. Joseph Academy, Brownsville 2016 The 19th Annual Spirit Awards banquet is set for 6 p.m. on Friday, Jan. 29 at Msgr. Ralph Hall at Our Lady of Sorrows Parish in McAllen. Sponsored by the Catholic Schools Office of the diocese, the event recognizes outstanding individuals whose dedication, generosity and service have made an impact in the 13 Catholic schools in the Rio Grande Valley. An honoree or honorees from each of the schools will be recognized at the event. Bishop Daniel E. Flores will be recognized as the diocesan honoree. “Bishop Flores has certainly made his presence known in all our schools,” said Sister Cynthia Mello of the Sisters of St. Dorothy, superintendent of schools for the diocese. “He celebrates Mass with the students, is present to faculty and staff, attends school events where you can find him relaxing and interacting with the children. “We honor him and thank him for his continued support to Catholic education.” Proceeds from the event benefit the diocese’s tuition assistance program, which is dedicated to making Catholic education accessible to all families. The Spirit Awards banquet kicks off the annual observance of Catholic Schools Week, which in 2016 is Jan. 31 – Feb. 6. The theme for the National Catholic Schools Week is “Catholic Schools: Communities of Faith, Knowledge and Service.” For more information on the event or for sponsorship opportunities, contact the Catholic Schools Office at (956) 7845051. Reynaldo Garza Incarnate Word Academy, Brownsville Irma Gonzalez Juan Diego Academy, Mission Diana Olivarez Julie Ng- Castillo Our Lady of Guadalupe School, Mission St. Anthony Catholic School, Harlingen Hilem Quinones Dr. Ricardo Ochoa St. Mary’s Catholic School, Brownsville St. Joseph Catholic School, Edinburg Bishop Daniel E. Flores Diocese of Brownsville Honoree Dr. Franco & Elizabeth Reyes Domingo & Lucia Perez St. Luke Catholic School, Brownsville San Martin de Porres School, Weslaco Andres & Carino Zuniga Jewel Peterson and Xavier & Lori Perez Liliana De La Garza & Polo Borrego Oratory of St. Philip Neri School, Pharr Immaculate Conception School, Rio Grande City Guadalupe Regional Middle School, Brownsville January 2016 DIOCESE - The Valley Catholic Those Who Serve: 7 Sister Colleen Matarese, SSD ‘Jesus is very, very alive here in the Valley’ Rhode Island native enjoys the warmth, spirituality of area By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic EDINBURG — “I love being in the Valley,” said Sister Colleen Matarese of the Sisters of St. Dorothy, a native of Bristol, R.I. “My faith has grown so much seeing how people in the Valley are so prayerful and how their faith is so meaningful to them. “Jesus is very, very alive here in the Valley — not that he isn’t up there — but I just sense it, I see it more down here.” Sister Matarese, who moved to the Rio Grande Valley from New England in 2010, is the counselor at St. Joseph School in Edinburg two days a week and works three days as the director of special programs for the diocesan Catholic Schools Office. As a school counselor, she supports the social and emotional needs of the students. In addition to providing individual and small group counseling, she also visits the classrooms to address a range of topics from character formation and self-esteem to bullying and respect. She was a classroom teacher for more than 10 years and saw firsthand how difficult it is for students to participate or focus on their schoolwork when they are experiencing distress. “I love teaching, but as time went on, I realized that kids were coming with much more baggage,” Sister Matarese said. “Learning meant nothing to them and I could see why. “Seeing that more and more, I felt called to help.” Sister Materese went back to school and earned a master’s degree in counseling. Some of the challenges students face are, “gossiping, bullying, not feeling accepted and not talking nice to one another,” she said. “The goal is for them to learn The Valley Catholic As a classroom teacher, Sister Colleen Materese of the Sisters of St. Dorothy saw how difficult it is for children to learn when they are experiencing distress, so she became a school counselor to help. to get along with one another and accept one another for who they are,” Sister Matarese added. “Every day, during the announcements, our principal (Mrs. Elida Paris) reminds the students to treat each other like they would treat Jesus. “I could never see myself teaching outside of a Catholic institution because that’s who I am. I can’t imagine not being able to talk about God and Jesus in my lessons with the students. If a student is having a difficult time, I pray with them and for them. I tell them, ‘let’s ask God to help us.’ I couldn’t do that in a public school.” “At the beginning of the school year, she gave the staff a piece of candy and little note that said, ‘You are the apple of God’s eye. Have a great year,’” said Leann Schelstrate, the bookkeeper at St. Joseph School in Edinburg, who has known Sister Matarese for five years. “She cares a lot about all of us, the students and the staff, and she demonstrates it. Everybody loves Sister Colleen.” The third of four children, Sister Materese was born in Bristol and attended Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic School until she received her first communion. Soon thereafter, her family moved to nearby Warren, R.I. where she attended public school. Sister Matarese said she never fully adjusted to public school. “I begged and begged my mother to send me to Our Lady of Fatima School,” she said. “My parents were both factory workers and we didn’t have a lot of money, but they made the sacrifice.” It was in eighth grade, her first year at Our Lady of Fatima School, that she began hearing the call to religious life. “We did a weekend retreat from a Friday night to a Sunday and it was there that my whole relationship with God changed,” Pope recognizes miracle needed to declare Mother Teresa a saint By CAROL GLATZ Catholic News Service VATICAN CITY — Pope Francis has approved a miracle attributed to the intercession of Blessed Teresa of Kolkata, thus paving the way for her canonization. Pope Francis signed the decree for Blessed Teresa’s cause and advanced three other sainthood causes Dec. 17. Although the date for the canonization ceremony will be officially announced during the next consistory of cardinals in February, Archbishop Rino Fisichella, president of the Vatican office organizing the Holy Year of Mercy events, had said it would be Sept. 4. That date celebrates the Jubilee of workers and volunteers of mercy and comes the day before the 19th anniver- sary of her death, Sept. 5, 1997. The postulator for her sainthood cause, Father Brian Kolodiejchuk of the Missionaries of Charity, said the second miracle that was approved involved the healing of a now 42-year-old mechanical engineer in Santos, Brazil. Doctors diagnosed the man with a viral brain infection that resulted in multiple brain abscesses, the priest said in a statement published Dec. 18 by AsiaNews, the Rome-based missionary news agency. Treatments given were ineffective and the man went into a coma, the postulator wrote. The then-newly married man’s wife had spent months praying to Blessed Teresa and her prayers were joined by those of her relatives and friends when her dying husband was taken to the operating room Dec. 9, 2008. When the surgeon entered the operating room, he reported that he found the patient awake, free of pain and asking, “What am I doing here?” Doctors reported the man showed no more symptoms and a Vatican medical commission voted unanimously in September 2015 that the healing was inexplicable. St. John Paul II had made an exception to the usual canonization process in Mother Teresa’s case by allowing her sainthood cause to be opened without waiting the usual five years after a candidate’s death. He beatified her in 2003. The order she started, the Missionaries of Charity, continues its outreach to the “poorest of the poor.” she said. “It became more personal. I will never forget that retreat. “I was also inspired by the Sisters (of St. Dorothy, who operated the school). I was always in awe about them. Their commitment, their dedication, their love for the students really inspired me.” Sister Materese first entered the community of the Sisters of St. Dorothy when she was 19-years-old but only stayed for six months. “I was not mentally ready,” she said. “It was too much of a switch from the life that I was leading.” She went to college and earned a bachelor’s degree in education, but stayed close to the Sisters of St. Dorothy. She re-entered the community on Feb. 6, 1984 and was blessed with the opportunity to attend the canonization of Sister Paula Frassinetti, the community’s founder, on March 11, 1984 at the Vatican. Sister Matarese assumed the role of director of special programs for the diocese after the death of Sister Helen Rottier of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet, who had held the position, in May 2015. Private schools may be eligible for federal funding through different avenues. The director for special programs works to obtain this funding and implements and evaluates federal/special programs, among other responsibilities. “Sister Colleen has taken over that position with much enthusiasm,” said Sister Cynthia Mello of the Sisters of St. Dorothy, superintendent of schools for the diocese. “To have someone whose time is devoted in areas that are of great concern to all our Catholic schools is so important today. Her contribution to our principals’ meetings are valuable as she shares her research and input in various areas such as the federal funding programs, religion certification for teachers, math curriculum, standardized tests and other areas that may need attention during an academic school year.” Sister Materese also teaches a confirmation class at St. Joan of Arc Parish in Weslaco. She began teaching this group of students last year and will journey with them to confirmation in the spring. It is her first experience teaching a confirmation class outside of a Catholic school setting. “These kids are just blowing me away, to see them pray and be attentive,” she said. Her students recently attended Eucharistic Adoration and Benediction. For many, it was their first time experiencing this service. “The deacon who led the service asked if anyone wanted to come up to the altar and kneel with him and many of our students joined him,” she said. “It almost brought me to tears. “I’m supposed to be helping them grow in their relationship with God, but they are helping me. I leave the class feeling renewed. I am certainly getting a lot from them.” 8 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - January 2016 »World Day of Peace Work for peace, foster solidarity Pope encourages overcoming attitude of indifference By ELISE HARRIS Catholic News Agency/EWTN VATICAN CITY — Pope Francis’ message for 2016’s World Day of Peace is packed with bold pastoral and practical advice for both the Church as well as international leaders. In it, he focused on the need to work for peace by overcoming the attitude of indifference and fostering a greater sense of solidarity, mercy and compassion. He advocated for concrete acts of mercy on the part of families, individuals and political leaders, such as the abolition of the death penalty and amnesty for prisoners convicted of political offenses. Also encouraged by the Pope was a review of legislation in terms of migrants, a greater attention toward women, particularly in terms of equality in the workplace, and debt forgiveness. “God is not indifferent! God cares about mankind! God does not abandon us!” was the opening line of Francis’ message for the 2016 World Day of Peace, published Dec. 15. Instituted by Bl. Pope Paul VI in 1968, the World Day of Peace is celebrated each year on the first day of January. The Pope gives a special message for the occasion, which is sent to all foreign ministers around the world, and which also indicates the Holy See’s diplomatic tone during the coming year. Titled “Overcome Indifference and win Peace,” the Pope’s message for 2016 is a reiteration of what he has frequently advocated for since the beginning of his pontificate: taking one’s eyes off oneself, and focusing on the needs of others. In a world afflicted by “a real third world war fought piecemeal,” the Pope expressed his desire to encourage people “not to lose hope in our human ability to conquer evil and to combat resignation and indifference.” He pointed to several initiatives over the past year which have brought world leaders together in an effort to overcome self-interest and apathy, such as the recently concluded COP21 summit on climate change in Paris, the Addis Ababa Summit on funding global sustainable development and the adoption of the United Nations 2030 Sustainable Development Agenda. Also highlighted by the Pope were landmark anniversaries for the Church, such as the 50th anniversary of Second Vatican Council documents “Nostra Aetate” on dialogue with non-Christian religions, and the constitution “Gaudium et Spes” on the Church in the modern world. Francis also pointed to the Jubilee of Mercy, which runs from Dec. 8, 2015-Nov. 20, 2016, expressing his hope that it will encourage people to “refuse to fall into a humiliating indifference or a monotonous routine which prevents us from discovering what is new!” He spoke of the importance of fostering fraternity, saying we are responsible for those around us. Without solidarity, he said, “we would be less human.” Calling indifference “a menace to the human family,” Francis noted that the attitude takes three forms: indifference to God, to our neighbor and to creation. Indifference toward God, he noted, “transcends the purely private sphere and affects the public and social sphere.” “Disregard and the denial of God, which lead man to acknowledge no norm above himself and himself alone, have produced untold cruelty and violence,” he said, while indifference toward one’s neighbor is expressed in a general disinterest and a lack of engagement. On an institutional level, indifference to the dignity, rights and freedom of others is part of a culture formed by “the pursuit of profit and hedonism,” and can foster and even justify actions and policies which threaten peace, Pope Francis said. Rather than ensuring that the basic rights and needs of others are preserved, economic and political projects frequently pursue power instead, he observed. When people see their basic rights, such as food, water, health care and employment denied, “they are tempted to obtain them by force.” Francis stressed that indifference is ultimately overcome by personal conversion, and pointed to the example of Jesus, who took on flesh and showed solidarity with humanity. Jesus shows us how to be invested in others, no matter how busy we may be, he said, cautioning that the attitude of indifference often seeks to excuse itself with tasks to complete or by “hiding behind hostilities and prejudices which keep us apart.” “Mercy is the heart of God,” he said, explaining that how we love and care for others is “the yardstick” by which God will judge our lives. The Valley Catholic Bishop Daniel E. Flores joined the Muslim community along with members of the Rio Grande Valley Interfaith group for a candlelight vigil on Dec. 10 at the Mosque in McAllen to honor the 14 victims of the San Bernardino rampage. Together they paid their respects and stood in solidarity with the families of the victims. The Valley Catholic Father Greg Labus, pastor at St. Joseph Church in Edinburg, said a prayer for peace at the mosque in Edinburg on Dec. 11 alongside Imam Osama Saad of the Masjid Arridwan in Edinburg, Rabbi Claudio Kogan of Temple Emanuel of McAllen, Sister Fatima Santiago, ICM, and Imam Noor Ahmad of the Masjid Mosque in McAllen. Pope: There is no ‘vocation to laziness’ Holy Father tells unemployed youth ‘work is a right for all’ By ANN SCHNEIBLE Catholic News Agency/EWTN VATICAN CITY — Pope Francis met with an Italian initiative aimed at offering support to unemployed and underemployed youth, saying their responsibility is to help young people rediscover the “vocation” of work in the context of their human dignity. The task at hand is to help young people find, not just a job, but “a responsibility of evangelization through the sanctifying value of work,” the Pope said during the Dec. 14 audience with members of the Policoro Project. However, this does not apply to “any form of work: not work that exploits, crushes, humiliates and abuses, but work that makes man truly free, in accordance with his noble dignity”. “The vocation to work: that is one of the traits of human dignity,” the Roman Pontiff said. “There is no vocation to laziness, but to work.” He added that this sense of commitment to work goes be- yond monetary gains: it is for the “e d i f i c a tion of the world, of society, and of life.” SponPope Francis sored by the Bishops’ Conference of Italy, the Policoro Project began twenty years ago; it aims to support young people in Italy experiencing unemployment and underemployment. Pope Francis met with the Policoro Project at the Vatican’s Paul VI Hall, lauding the work of the initiative, which has spread nationally. The Pope said work which allows for freedom, creativity, participation and mutual support helps workers “express and enhance” their dignity. “Let us not lose sight of the urgency of reaffirming this dignity! It belongs to each and every one of us. .. When there is no work, dignity is at risk, as unemployment not only prevents you from putting food on the table; it also makes you feel unworthy of earning a living.” The Roman Pontiff observed how young people today have fallen victim to unemployment, not only affecting their ability to sustain themselves, but also promoting feelings of unworthiness. “How many of them have given up looking for work, resigned to continual rejection or the indifference of a society that rewards only the usual privileged few – even if they are corrupt – and obstructs those who deserve affirmation.” “The reward seems to go to those who are sure of themselves, even if this security is gained through corruption. Work is not a gift to be kindly granted to the select few: it is a right for all!” Pope Francis lauded the Policoro Project for representing a “sign of real hope for many people who have not resigned themselves but have instead decided to commit themselves courageously to creating or improving their opportunities for work.” “Continue to promote initiatives for participation for young people in a community and participatory form,” he encouraged them. “To the question, ‘what has the Church to do with my situation?’, that you have said and heard many times, the answer is ‘witness’. And here you are able to provide your witness, face to face with those who are in need of courage and support.” »Birthday & Anniversary Wishes The list of birthdays and ordination anniversaries is provided so that parishioners may remember the priests, deacons and religious in their prayers and send them a note or a card. January » Birthdays 1 4 6 10 13 22 22 24 28 28 Rev. Leo Francis Daniels, CO Rev. Rigobert Poulang Mot Rev. Msgr. Louis Brum Rev. Eusebio Martinez Rev. Alejandro Flores Rev. Horacio Chavarria Rev. Oscar Siordia Rev. Ignacio Tapia Rev. Robert Davola Rev. Bill Penderghest, ss.cc. 2 4 14 18 19 23 24 28 Deacon Alfred Crixell Deacon John P. Kinch Deacon Paulo Escobar Deacon Ramon G. Leal Deacon Salvador G. Saldivar Deacon Reynaldo I Flores Deacon Juan Valenzuela Deacon Alejandro Flores 3 Brother Hoss A. Alvarez 5 Sister Emily Jocson, ICM 23 Sister Dianne Maresha » Anniversaries 4 Rev. Thomas Kulleck 4 Rev. M. Kumar Nayak, ss.cc. 28 Rev. Cesar Partida 30 Bishop Daniel Flores as priest 30 Msgr. Agostinho S. Pacheco 28 Deacon Francisco Pon February » Birthdays 2 3 11 11 19 26 26 Rev. Mishael Koday Rev. Thomas Pincelli Rev. Gustavo Obando Msgr. Robert Davola Bishop Emeritus Raymundo J. Pena Rev. Juan Victor Heredia Rev. Thomas G. Kulleck 2 2 3 14 20 20 Sister Mary N. Vincelli, CSJ Sister Esther Rodriguez, OP Sister Anita Jennissen, OSF Brother David Concannon, CFC Sister Rosalia Fink, OSB Sister Frances Salinas, OSB 8 11 13 15 15 17 18 22 Deacon Amando Peña Jr. Deacon Gilberto Perez Deacon Hugo De la Cruz Deacon Jose R. Castro Deacon George M. Terrazas Deacon Hector Perez Deacon Pedro Sanchez Deacon Alvino Olvera » Anniversaries 2 8 11 15 25 Rev. Juan Victor Heredia Rev. Gnanaraj Michael Msgr. Robert Davola Rev. Patrick Seitz Rev. Marco Antonio Reynoso Enero 2016 - » La Alegría de Vivir E DIOCESE The Valley Catholic Misericordioso como el Padre l tema del año jubilar es ‘Misericordia’: perdón y sanación. Es necesario reflexionar en lo ‘que es’ y ‘que no es’ perdonar. ‘Perdonar’ no es: -olvidar -absolver -auto sacrificarse -acto de una sola vez -pretender que todo está “bien” cuando todo indica lo contrario -cambiar tu comportamientopor ejemplo piensas, “No tengo que llamar a esa persona que te daño.”. ‘Perdonar’ es un acto, la acción de dejar ir el dolor y moverse hacia adelante en nuestras vidas; es una actitud y un proceso que requiere un cambio de precepción una y otra vez; es una elección que dice, “Elijo abandonarme e involucrarme cuando me hieren”. Si no perdonamos nos quedamos como congelados, atorados, atrapados en tiempo pasado. Existe el peligro que podemos rodearnos de energía negativa, por ejemplo: odio, rencores, envidia, y la pereza. Quizá entre una falsa ilusión: “Si permanezco alejado, nunca me herirán de nuevo” o “Si esto no hubiera pasado yo estaría mucho mejor”. A fin de cuentas, ‘recordar y perdonar’ es mejor que ‘olvidar y perdonar’. Es mejor buscar algo mejor y una energía positiva, por ejemplo, en el ejercicio, oración, y en la comunión con aquellos que sonríen auténticamente. Entonces, al ‘perdonar’ ya no queremos castigar porque aceptamos que nada de lo que hagamos para Msgr. Juan Nicolau Sacerdote jubilado de la Diócesis de Brownsville castigarlos nos ayudara a sanar. Abramos, pues, la ‘Puerta de Misericordia’ en nuestro corazones y podremos aceptar a la gente tal como es. Hallará casos en que se requiere psicoterapia. Esta herramienta puede ser un complemento bueno y esencial: terapia, grupos de apoyo, ejercicio, etc. Termino con ‘Los 10 Pasos del Perdón’: 1. Ámense unos a otros. 2. Tú debes perdonar si quieres que te perdonen. 3. Debes orar por los que te hacen daño. 4. No perdonar es un tipo de odio. 5. Has una decisión para perdonar. 6. Busquen la sanación de las emociones y recuerdos. 7. Cierren las puertas al demonio. 8. Perdónense a sí mismos. 9. El perdón es un proceso. 10. Ame a su prójimo siendo canal de sanación Nuestro Santo Papa y todos los obispos han abierto simbólicamente ‘la puerta de misericordia’ en todas las catedrales por todo el mundo. Daremos ganas para abrir ‘la puerta de nuestro corazón’ y aprovechar de la gracia de Dios para nuestra conversión total. Santa Sede aclara: Pergaminos con bendición papal solo se adquieren en Limosnería vaticana ACI Prensa CIUDAD DEL VATICANO — Los pergaminos con las bendiciones papales solo pueden ser expedidos por la Limosnería Apostólica Vaticana, recordó la Santa Sede con el fin de evitar que los fieles sean engañados por personas inescrupulosas, luego que la Gendarmería vaticana y la Policía vaticana confiscaran unos 3.500 documentos falsos que iban a ser vendidos por un total de 70.000 euros. “Los pergaminos con bendiciones apostólica son expedidos solo por Limosnería Apostólica, la oficina de la Santa Sede que tiene la tarea de ejercitar la caridad hacia los pobres a nombre del Pontífice. Todos los ingresos de la Limosnería Apostólica, sobre todo las ofrendas por la expedición de los diplomas de bendiciones, son íntegramente transferidas para la caridad”, señaló ayer martes a través de Radio Vaticana. Los papeles falsos iban a ser vendidos a los peregrinos aprovechando el Jubileo de la Misericordia que se inauguró el 8 de diciembre. Sin embargo, fueron descubiertos en un comercio cercano a la Plaza de San Pedro. El responsable de la estafa ha sido denun- ciado por producción y comercio de objetos falsificados. Para obtener un pergamino oficial, se debe acercar personalmente “a las oficinas de la Limosnería Apostólica dentro de la Ciudad del Vaticano”. “Se pueden también hacer pedidos dirigidos a la Limosnería Apostólica mediante correo postal (Elemosineria Apostolica, Ufficio pergamene 00120 Città del Vaticano) o a través del fax (06.69883132)”. Las personas que deseen el pergamino, deben llenar un formulario que se encuentra en el sitio web de la Limosnería. En su sitio web, la Limosnería señaló que “la Bendición Apostólica se imparte en las siguientes ocasiones: Bautismo, Primera Comunión, Confirmación, Matrimonio, ordenación presbiteral, ordenación de diácono permanente, Profesión Religiosa, Consagración Secular, aniversarios, cumpleaños” y a personas católicas de manera individual o familias católicas “con nombre y apellido de los esposos unidos en matrimonio religioso”. “El tiempo necesario para recibir el pergamino es de unos treinta días aproximadamente, a partir de la fecha de la solicitud”, señaló. 9 Marcha da testimonio a la vida The Valley Catholic McALLEN – El Apostolado diocesano Respeto a la Vida está organizando una marcha pacifica y de oración el sábado 30 de enero en McAllen para propagar el mensaje de vida en nuestra comunidad. El evento empezará a las 9 a.m. con oraciones de apertura por el Obispo Daniel E. Flores en la parroquia San José Obrero, 900 S. 23rd St. Después del servicio de oración, la procesión dejará la iglesia y se encaminarán al centro. A lo largo de la procesión, se rezará el Rosario y se cantarán himnos. La procesión pasará por la instalación de aborto y terminará en la parroquia Sagrado Corazón, 306 S. 15th St. con oraciones de clausura. Todos son invitados a dar testimonio a la vida. Grupos de oración, grupos de la iglesia, escuelas Católicas, familias e individuos son bienvenidos y animados a asistir. La marcha se lleva a cabo en reparación por los más de 57 millones de bebés que han sido asesinados en los Estados Unidos desde el fallo de la Corte Suprema Roe v. Wade el 22 de enero de 1973 que legalizó el aborto. Defensores pro-vida en todo el país están al pendiente del aniversario con eventos de oración y acción. “A veces tenemos la idea de que la fe es algo personal, pero la fe en realidad es lo que nos une con el otro y no solamente a Dios,” dijo el Padre Alejandro Flores, director del Apostolado diocesano Respeto a la Vida y pastor de la parroquia San Juan Diego en McAllen. “Estamos conectados… estamos conectados a esta mujer que esta en una crisis de embarazo; estamos conectados con esta pareja que se enfrenta a un embarazo cuando no lo planearon, estamos conectados al doctor que piensa que está ayudando al matar a un niño en el vientre y estamos conectados a ese niño que es una criatura de Dios y que es llamado a ser parte en la vida de Dios. “Somos mermados cuando alguien muere, todos somos mermados cuando se comete un acto de violencia hacia otros.” La marcha anual fue llevada a cabo en el centro de McAllen por primera vez en el 2013 con el impulso del Padre James C. Erving, el sacerdote Oblato que fungió como director del Apostolado Respeto a la Vida al momento. El padre Erving, quien murió en marzo 2014, quería que el evento se llevará a cabo en un lugar público para que el mensaje de vida llegara a una audiencia mayor y a una audiencia secular. El Padre Flores ha continuado la tradición, abogando para que el caso esté en la esfera pública. “Hay una sensación de que nuestra fe es algo que se celebra tras las puertas de la iglesia y tras puertas cerrados en mi recamara, pero en realidad nuestra fe es algo que llama a ser muy público y que llama a ser algo que inspira a aquellos que dan testimonio de ella,” “Necesitamos compartir el mensaje de que Dios no es un Dios que busca tu daño, que Dios no quiere derrumbarte sino que dios está aquí para mostrarte la belleza de lo que es la vida para darle esa esperanza a las personas. »Vida Familiar Disfrutando el ‘Happy Hour’ U no de mis horas más felices del día es la hora que paso en mi cocina preparando la cena familiar. Es verdaderamente un “Happy Hour”. Estoy muy agradecida con Dios por tener un trabajo / ministerio que realmente disfruto. Mis días están llenos de trabajo significativo y con muchas oportunidades de servir a Dios sirviendo a mi familia, sirviendo a la Iglesia / Comunidad, y sirviendo a los necesitados. Y aunque disfruto mucho lo que hago en mis horas de trabajo, espero con anticipación llegar a la casa para preparar la cena, lo cual siempre ha sido muy relajante para mí. Es muy agradable por muchas razones. 1. Soy una persona planificadora, por naturaleza, y por más de treinta años, siempre he preparado un menú para la semana tomando en cuenta los compromisos que tengo por la tarde; ya sean compromisos de trabajo o si Mauri y yo tenemos alguna reunión de Padrinos de Preparación Matrimonial, con alguna pareja de novios. Con frecuencia planeo cena que se pueda preparar en un “crock pot”, esos días puede incluir sopa de pollo; pollo rostizado con camote; sopa de tortilla; o lasaña. Tomar decisiones de último momento no es mi fuerte, así que la planeación previa quita el estrés de la preparación de la comida. Me acuerdo de una frase del Papa Francisco: “En Jesús, Dios mismo se hizo Emmanuel, Dios-con-nosotros, el Dios que camina a nuestro lado, que se involucra en nuestras vidas, en nuestras casas, en medio de nuestras “ollas y sartenes “, como Santa Teresa de Jesús gustaba decir.” 2. Yo no disfruto mucho ir de compras a tiendas departamentales, pero si disfruto ir de compras al supermercado. Preparo mi lista de compras basado en el menú que he preparado para no comprar de Lydia Pesina Directora, Oficina de Vida Familiar más y así mantener los productos frescos, y mantener los gastos dentro del presupuesto de la semana. También es una oportunidad para preguntar a mi familia que necesitan de la tienda, y así proveer para las necesidades diarias de cada uno. “El amor se demuestra por las cosas pequeñas, por la atención a las pequeñas señales diarias que nos hacen sentir como en casa. La fe crece cuando se vive y se conforma por el amor. Es por eso que nuestras familias, nuestros hogares, son verdaderas iglesias domésticas”. (Papa Francisco) 3. Otra razón por la que disfruto mi “Happy Hour”, es que me da la oportunidad de estar en soledad y pensar y reflexionar mientras cocino, o la oportunidad de dialogar con alguien de la familia. Yo lo veo como una situación de ganar / ganar. Si mi hija viene a preguntarme algo mientras yo cocino y le pido que ayude; si ayuda, nos da un poco de tiempo de vinculación; si decide no ayudar, tengo mi tiempo tranquilo para disfrutar. Una vez más, otro pensamiento del Papa Francisco ‘”pepitas de sabiduría”: “Dios es bueno, todo lo que es verdadero, todo lo que es hermoso nos lleva a Dios. Debido a que Dios es bueno, Dios es hermoso, Dios es la verdad. “ “ Pero lo más hermoso que Dios hizo, la Biblia dice, fue la familia.” 4. Las comidas en familia alrededor de la mesa (sin electrónicos) son muy importantes para nosotros. Por la mayor parte de nuestra vida matrimonial, Mauri y yo hemos utilizado servilletas de tela para cada comida, ya seamos cuatro o veinticuatro compartiendo los alimentos. Los platos son sencillos al igual que las comidas, pero la reunión alrededor de la mesa para orar, para comer, para hablar, para compartir, para discrepar, para reconciliar y para empezar de nuevo no tiene precio. La vida familiar es desordenada, pero lo sagrado de la vida está en el desorden de nuestra vida cotidiana como una familia. Me conmovieron dos historias de familias que escuche en dos presentaciones en diferentes parroquias. En la Parroquia de San Juan Bautista, una mujer compartió que su marido trabajaba fuera de la ciudad en la construcción y debido a que sus hijos tienen diferentes actividades todos los días, no suelen tener la oportunidad de comer juntos, pero a las 9 pm, reúne a todos sus hijos en torno a la mesa del comedor, sirve naranjas o sandías, y todos ellos están vía “face time” con el papá. En San José Obrero en McAllen un hombre me dijo que acababa de dejar su trabajo debido a que su horario fue cambiado a la noche y me dijo que era lo suficientemente fuerte como para encontrar otro trabajo; que él no estaba dispuesto a poner en riesgo su tiempo en familia. Una vez más, nuestro maravilloso Papa Francisco nos recuerda con estas palabras: “No podemos llamar a cualquier sociedad sana cuando no tiene verdadero espacio para la vida familiar.” “No existen las familias perfectas. Esto no nos debe desanimar. Todo lo contrario. El amor es algo que aprendemos; el amor es algo que vivimos; el amor crece a medida que se ‘forja’ por las situaciones concretas que cada familia en particular experimenta. El amor nace y se desarrolla constantemente en medio de luces y sombras”. Que cada uno disfrute de su “Happy Hour”. 10 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - Enero 2016 »Mujeres en la frontera El Papa visitará comunidades Cumplir 50 y las lecciones aprendidas marginadas en México en febrero T enía 26 años cuando mi madre murió de cáncer a los 50. Con las secuelas de su pérdida y temerosa de la fugacidad del tiempo, aprendí a valorar cada momento. He tratado de vivir intensamente cada año. Ahora, en las vispera de alcanzar el medio siglo de mi vida este 17 de enero, estoy agradecida por la aventura que Dios me ha regalado. El trayecto ha tenido turbulencia y retos, pero esos días oscuros nunca se apoderaron de mi. Estoy viva, y me siento aun mas viva porque no tengo miedo a la muerte. Sí. Tengo una lista creciente de lo que quiero hacer y ciertamente necesito más tiempo para intentar hacerlo todo, pero acojo cada día conforme llega. Medio siglo de tropiezos y caídas, entre dichas y sorpresas vigorizantes, me han dado algunas lecciones. 1. Se agradecida. 2. No des nada por sentado, especialmente personas. 3. No tengas miedo. No hay palabras suficientes para enumerar todas las cosas que agradezco en mis días. Cuando mi hija era mas joven, jugábamos un juego para ver quien podía enlistar más bendiciones en nuestro día. Qué dicha ver lo interminable que puede ser esta lista. Lo primero en mi lista cada día eran las personas en mi vida, principalmente mi esposo, hijo e hija, junto con mis amigos que me inspiran a seguir adelante con sus palabras de sabiduría, ánimo y ejemplo. Estoy tan agradecida por la capacidad de amar y por considerarme una aprendiz de por vida, una ciudadana del mundo con una curiosidad que crece ante todo lo que tengo frente a mi. Si bien no estoy encantada con algunos cambios físicos que vienen con la edad – el aumento de peso, nuevas arrugas y canas, estoy agradecida que esta trae la sabiduría, una mayor consciencia de lo que importa. En Proverbios 3:13 leemos, “ ¡Feliz el hombre que encontró la sabiduría y el que obtiene la inteligencia!” Esta sabiduría nos ayuda a priorizar lo que es importante en nuestras vidas. Nos enseña a no dar nada por sentado. Esto me ayuda a vivir el momento, estando presente para las personas, reconociendo que no se trata de mi, pero de servir a los demás. También significa que no podemos dar por sentado nuestra salud. No podemos detener By CAROL GLATZ Catholic News Service Brenda Nettles Riojas Editora, The Valley Catholic el proceso de envejecimiento, pero podemos dar pasos para comer mas saludable y ejercitarnos. Carmen Tafolla, la Poeta Laureada de Texas, escribió una carta abierta a las personas en San Antonio cuando fue diagnosticada con cáncer, urgiendo a las personas que tomaran pasos para mantenerse saludable. Tomamos medidas extremas para luchar contra el cáncer cuando es diagnosticado. ¿Por qué no hacerlo de una manera preventiva? La sabiduría, que viene de la confianza en Dios, nos ayuda a dejar los miedos. Las vivencias de mi infancia crearon un río de miedos en mí los cuales me han tomado medio siglo superar. Qué refrescante dejar esos miedos atrás, aceptar quien soy con todas mis imperfecciones. Entregarse al Señor libera nuestro camino de preocupacines. Sí podemos tropezar en el camino, sí habrán espinitas, pero es parte del crecimiento. No solamente estoy aprendiendo a defender mis convicciones, estos días estoy más motivada a intentar algo nuevo, especialmente si me da miedo. En el 2015, escribí sobre un momento en que el miedo me impulsó a aceptar una invitación para convertir algunos de mis poemas sobre mi madre en una obra de teatro corta. Dejar ir el miedo ha sido parte de mi camino de fe. También he dejado de preocuparme sobre cuantos mañanas me esperan. Empiezo este nuevo año y un nuevo capítulo lista con la anticipación de lo que viene después, lista para decir “sí” al llamado de Dios. Me doy cuenta, como señala San Ignacio de Loyola en sus ejercicios espirituales, que soy un trabajo en progreso. También sé que la muerte no tiene la última palabra. Como escribí en mi poema a la muerte, “La muerte no triunfa” – “No sabemos cuando / la tinta se secará en nuestras manos, / cuando cesarán las palabras / a mitad del aliento. Pero sabemos que la hora / llegará, la hora para la última hoja de nuestra historia.” Mientras tanto, rezo para que mis días sean una ofrenda agradable a Dios. Protecting God’s people; report suspected misconduct As God’s people, we are called to celebrate, promote, and when necessary to defend the life and dignity of every person. We must treat everyone with respect, and do what we can to protect others from harm. Suspected misconduct with minors by lay church personnel should be reported to the pastor of the parish, the principal of the school, or the head of the Catholic institution involved. Suspected misconduct with minors by a priest, deacon, or religious should be reported directly to the Bishop or Vicar General (P. O. Box 2279, Brownsville, TX 78522-2279; 956-542-2501). A form for a Confidential Notice of Concern, may be used, and obtained on request from the local pastor, school principal, institution head, or Diocese, or it may be downloaded from the Brownsville Diocese website (www.cdob.org) Please be aware that it is a state law that anyone who suspects abuse or neglect of a minor must report it to local law enforcement officials or to the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services at 1-800-2525400. CIUDAD DEL VATICANO — El papa Francisco visitará algunas de la comunidades más marginadas de México cuando visite en febrero y procurará llevarle esperanza a un país que sufre profundamente por el crimen, la corrupción y la desigualdad. El Vaticano anunció el 12 de diciembre detalles sobre el viaje del papa a México del 12 al 17 de febrero, durante el cual parará en seis ciudades incluyendo dos en el estado Chiapas y — cruzando desde El Paso, Texas — Ciudad Juárez, la cual hace apenas cinco años se consideraba la “capital mundial del asesinato” según carteles de la droga se disputaban el corredor del narcotráfico. El papa dijo en noviembre que quería visitar ciudades donde nunca fueron san Juan Pablo II y el papa Benedicto XVI. Pero él dijo que parará en la capital, Ciudad de México, para orar en la Basílica de Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe. “Pero si no fuese por Nuestra Señora no iría” allá, él había dicho ante reporteros. El papa volará hasta y regresará desde Ciudad de México cada día después de celebrar Misa en la basílica el segundo día de su viaje. Durante los próximos cuatro días él visitará un hospital pediátrico en la capital, así como familias y comunidades indígenas en el estado ubicado más al sur y el más pobre de México, Chiapas, que cautivó la atención mundial con su Rebelión Zapatista durante la década de 1990. Él visitará a jóvenes y a religiosos en Morelia, celebrará Misa en la frontera mexicana-estadounidense en Ciudad Juárez y visitará su infame prisión estatal Cereso, donde por lo menos 20 personas fueron asesinadas durante los disturbios de 2009 activados por pandillas rivales entre los presos. “Estamos seguros que la presencia del Santo Padre nos confirmará en la fe, la esperanza y la caridad, ayudará a la iglesia a seguir adelante en la misión permanente”, dijo la conferencia episcopal mexicana en un comunicado del 12 de diciembre, “y alentará a creyentes y no creyentes a comprometernos en la construcción de un México justo, solidario, reconciliado y en paz”. Padre Oscar Enríquez, sacerdote parroquial y director del Centro de Derechos Humanos Paso Del Norte en Ciudad Juárez, dijo a Catholic News Service que Juárez es a menudo visto como ejemplo de superación de la violencia extrema. “El papa siempre busca las periferias. Juárez es la periferia de México y es un lugar por el cual pasan los migrantes”. Padre Patricio Madrigal, pastor de la parroquia Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe en la ciudad Nueva Italia en Michoacán, dijo que al visitar Morelia el papa “quiere estar más cerca de una zona abatida por la violencia. Él quiere traer consuelo y también intimidad”. La reunión del papa con jóvenes y religiosos en Morelia es importante, dijo padre Madrigal a CNS, ya que la iglesia allí trabaja para mantener a los niños fuera de los carteles y proveerle a los sacerdotes apoyo y “fortalecernos en la fe y en nuestro trabajo atendiendo a las víctimas de la violencia”. Los sacerdotes de la áspera región Tierra Caliente allí le habían prestado apoyo moral y espiritual a vigilantes que se armaban para expulsar un cartel narco en el 2013. El papa Francisco “quiere darle a los jóvenes un mensaje de esperanza y de que se mantengan lejos de la tentación de la violencia”, dijo el sacerdote. january 2016 - DIOCESE 11 The Valley Catholic »Media Resource Center Recommended by SISTER MAUREEN CROSBY, SSD Coordinator of the Media Resource Center - Diocese of Brownsville »From the Bookshelf The Handbook for Catholic Moms: Nurturing Your Heart, Mind, Body, and Soul Format: Book Length: 256 pp Audience: Adults Author: Lisa M. Hendey Publication:Ave Maria Press, 2011 52 companions for your Heart, Mind, Body, and Soul. “Whether you’re a spiritual mom like me or a mom with children who keep you on the move, this book will provide much joy, guidance, and companionship on your journey.” - Teresa Tomeo Don’t Drink The Holy Water! Big Al and Annie Go to Mass Format: DVD Length: 61 pp booklet included Audience: Children 3-8 Author: Fr. Joe Kempf Publication:2010, Liguori Publications The story and illustrations draw attention to the cultural differences that make the Mexican Christmas holiday unique and enjoyable. Santa has become Papa Noel and his reindeer have been replaced with eight burros pulling a cart. A sombrero-wearing Santa is making his rounds through the Mexican desert in James Rice’s latest twist of a holiday tale. Feast of Santo Niño marks arrival of Christian faith in Philippines Bishop Flores to join community for celebration The Valley Catholic PEÑITAS — Bishop Daniel E. Flores will celebrate Mass for the Filipino community on the feast of Santo Niño at 3 p.m. on Sunday, Jan.17 at St. Anne Parish in Peñitas. A Sinulog procession with the image of the Santo Niño around the outside perimeter of the church will kick off the festivities, followed by the Mass and an outdoor celebration with food and entertainment. “Halad brings together all our devotions of the different islands in the Philippines to the Santo Niño — the Ati-atihan, the Sinulog, the Dinagyang festivals, as well as the fiesta celebrations of all parishes dedicated to the Santo Niño,” said Father Michael Montoya of the Missionaries of Jesus and pastor of St. Anne Parish in Peñitas. “It is called Halad kang Senyor Santo Niño (offering to Senyor Santo Niño). We would like to encourage all the Filipino communities in the RGV to come and join the celebrations.” Father Montoya added that funds collected during the Mass will be used to help build a parish hall for the community of Pueblo de Palmas. 3 Epiphany of Our Lord 5 Clase para Cerficado DER (Office of Catechesis) 7 DRE Certification Class (Office of Catechesis) 9 Convalidation Conference (Family Life Office) 21 Vocation Hour for Family Life Office at St Joseph Chapel, Alamo 22-24 Catholic Engaged Encounter (Family Life Office) 23 Divine Mercy Conference 28 Advisory Team (Office of Catechesis) Amber Donaldson/Mobile Journalist, The Valley Catholic A Sinulog procession will be held around the outside perimeter St. Anne Church in Peñitas before the Mass celebrating the Feast of Santo Niño on Jan. 17. The Sinulog dance is the traditional and ritual dance accompanied by drums in honor of Santo Niño. 28 Spirit Awards (Catholic Schools Office) The feast of Santo Niño marks the arrival of the Christian faith into the Philippines in 1521, when Portuguese explorer Ferdinand Magellan offered the gift of a statue of the Child Je- 31 Mother/Daugther Program (Family Life Office) sus to Lady Humamay after her conversion to the Christian faith. Lady Humamay was the principal wife of Rajah Humabon, the chieftain of Cebu, Philippines. 30 Pro-Life March (Respect Life Apostolate) February 2 Candlemass 2 Clase para Cerficado DER (Office of Catechesis) 7 DRE Certification Class (Office of Catechesis) 6-7 NewLife Remarriage (Family Life Office) 7 Mass for children with special needs and their families (Holy Family, Brownsville) 13 Rite of Elections (Office of Catechesis) 13 World Marriage Day (Family Life Office) Courtesy Photo Msgr. Heberto Diaz, pastor of St. Mary’s Church in Brownsville, installed 54 young ladies to the Junior Catholic Daughters of America (JCDA), Court JCDA #1998 Bishop Adolph Marx on November 29, 2015. Norma Guerra-Valdez and Elia Cornejo Lopez serve as co-sponsors of the JCDA. The officers are President Lucinda “Lucy” Lopez, First Vice President Lauren Cuevas, Second Vice President Ariel Garza, Secretary Sabrina Rodriguez and Reporter Mireya Lopez. As their motto the girls chose “United we stand in the service of God.” Bishop Emeritus Raymundo J. Peña’s Calendar January 6 January 11-15 January 26 January 27 January 29 10 a.m. All Day 11 a.m. 6:30 p.m. 6 p.m. C&ER Foundation Meeting Priests’ Annual Retreat - St. Eugene Retreat Center OMI Bicentennial Evins Ministry Catholic Schools Spirit Awards Banquet Alamo San Juan San Antonio Edinburg McAllen Ongoing: Format: VHS Length: 94 mins Audience: High School/Adults NR Production: 2002 (CBS) This compelling story demonstrates the power a single act of defiance can have over an ancient tradition of injustice. In 1955, Rosa Parks creates the spark that ignites the modern Civil Rights Movement. After a long day’s work, she takes the only available seat in the first row of the “colored” section on a bus. When the driver demands that the Black passengers clear the row for a White woman, Rosa refuses to comply. New Year’s Day, Solemnity of Mary (Diocesan Offices closed, Holy Day of Obligation) 19 Professional Day (Office of Catechesis) Our Friend Martin: A Movie for Kids The Rosa Parks Story January 1 16 Sponsor Couple Training English (Family Life Office) »Worth Watching Format: VHS Length: 60 mins Audience: Children Ages 10 & UP Directed by:Rob Smiley and Vincenzo Trippetti A Message for Everyone. What begins as a routine class project for a diverse group of sixth-graders turns into a magical, time-traveling adventure they’ll never forget. Authentic historical footage of Martin Luther King, Jr. is blended with colorful animation as the students learn about – actually meet- the civil rights leader who challenged all Americans to turn his dream into a reality. » Calendar of Events 14 Valentine’s Day 14 Rite of Elections (Office of Catechesis) 18 Professional Day (Office of Catechesis) 18 Vocation Holy Hour (Family Life Office) 20 Catholic Men’s Conference 20-21 Retiro Pre Matrimonial (Family Life Office) Please submit your schedule to be published in The Valley Catholic by the first Friday of each month by email at [email protected] or fax: (956) 784-5082. Monday - Saturday 8 a.m. Mass at St. Joseph Chapel of Perpetual Adoration, 727 Bowie St., Alamo 3 p.m. Mass at St. Joseph Chapel of Perpetual Adoration, 727 Bowie St., Alamo Every Tuesday: 12:15 p.m.Mass at UT-RGV/Edinburg 2 p.m. Counseling at UT-RGV/Edinburg Every Thursday 7-8 p.m. Holy Hour at 727 Bowie St., Alamo Every Sunday: 6 p.m. Mass/Confessions at UT-RGV/Edinburg Men’s Catholic Conference Feb. 20 1st: Intention to the Consecrated Life (active and contemplative) and for the Sisters and Brothers in our diocese and the success of their mission 2nd: Intention to the Permanent Diaconate the deacons (permanent and transitional) of the diocese and their families 3rd : Intention to Married Life: for the welfare and sanctification of all the families in the diocese and for building up the Kingdom in our domestic churches 4th: Intention to the priesthood and the priests of the diocese for the success of their ministry 5th: Intention to Pope Francis The Rio Grande Valley Catholic Men’s Fellowship group is organizing their 2016 Catholic Men’s Conference for Feb. 20 at Our Lady of Perpetual Help parish hall in McAllen. Bishop Daniel E. Flores will serve as the keynote speaker. To register online visit www.rgvcmf.org. 12 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - January 2016 Our Catholic Family ‘We are all the children of God’ Volunteer delivers the Good News to those behind bars By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic RAYMONDVILLE — “Twenty years ago, I went to a Cursillo weekend retreat and that’s when I met the Lord,” said Ezequiel “Zeke” Martinez, coordinator for the diocesan jail ministry in Willacy County. “And I made a decision to really serve the Lord 100 percent.” Martinez was raised Methodist and converted to Catholicism when he met his wife. He attended Mass every Sunday but it took the retreat for him to, “surrender his life to Christ.” “En la iglesia, somos unos, en la casa somos otros, alla con los amigos somos otros (in church we are one person, at home, another and with friends, another), but once you have the encounter with Jesus Christ, you try to be the same person at home, at church, at work and everywhere you go,” he said. “No vivo yo, sino Cristo vive en mi” (it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me). After the Cursillo weekend, Martinez, a parishioner at Our Lady of Guadalupe Church in Raymondville, began volunteering in various ministries but soon, “I began receiving signs that I was called to serve in jail ministry.” He met the late Sister Juliana Garcia (1933-2014), one of the founding members of the Missionaries of Jesus and the first leader of the diocesan jail ministry, at a religious formation class she was teaching. Martinez said he eagerly answered several questions during the class. “Sister Juliana said, ‘I am volunteering you to serve in the jail ministry,’” he recalled, with a laugh. There are approximately 150 Catholic volunteers who perform day-to-day ministry in the 34 facilities in the diocese. These volunteers provide scripture classes, faith formation, RCIA preparation, retreats and more for those behind bars. Martinez began teaching religious education classes at the Willacy County State Jail. One day after a class, he was approached by an inmate. “The inmate said, ‘if I would have learned what you are teaching me when I was younger, I would have never made that mistake and ended up in here,’” Martinez said. “I fell in love with this ministry right then and there.” Today, Martinez assists Ofelia De los Santos, director of the Jail Ministry and Immigration Services for the diocese, in coordinating 23 volunteers at four facilities in Willacy County. “Zeke Martinez is the type of prison minister that inspires others to always do their best...and he does it by example, using words only when necessary,” De los San- The Valley Catholic Ezequiel “Zeke” Martinez has been serving in the jail ministry for almost 20 years. tos said. Hector Ramirez, a fellow jail ministry volunteer, said Martinez shows the inmates, “a lot of com- passion and respect.” “He interacts well with them,” Ramirez said. “They like him very much. He knows the Catholic Mother-Daughter Program set for Jan. 31 Appreciation for God’s gift emphasized The Valley Catholic The Family Life Office annual Mother-Daughter Program, which explores God’s special gift of human fertility and the wonder of growing up and becoming a woman, is scheduled Sunday, Jan. 31. The event begins at 2:30 p.m. at the Bishop Adolf Marx Conference Center, 700 N. Virgen de San Juan Blvd. in San Juan. The program, which is designed for mothers and their daughters, ages 10-12, will encourage girls to appreciate their femininity, as well as their changing bodies and personalities. The presentations emphasize respect and appreciation for God’s gifts. Topics include the physical and emotional changes in a young woman’s body in preparation for motherhood, the sacredness of human life and the virtue of chastity. The presenters will also emphasize that each girl is precious and unique, and that every girl changes and develops at different times and in different ways. The cost is $10 per family and reservations are required. The deadline for registration is Jan. 20. For more information, call the Family Life Office at (956) 784-5012. always looks for the peripheries. Juarez is the periphery of Mexico and it’s a place migrants pass through.” Father Patricio Madrigal, pastor of the Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish in the Michoacan city of Nueva Italia said by visiting Morelia, the pope “wants to be closer to an area beaten down by violence. He wants to bring comfort and also closeness.” The pope’s meeting with young people and religious in Morelia is important, Father Madrigal told CNS, as the church there works to keep kids out of the cartels and provide priests with support and “strengthen us in the faith and our work in attending to victims of violence.” Priests in the rugged Tierra Caliente region there had lent moral and spiritual support to vigilantes arming themselves to run off a drug cartel in 2013. Pope Francis “wants to give young people a message of hope and that they stay away from the temptation of violence,” the priest said. The pope’s itinerary for his visit to Mexico is available on the Vatican website. respect. Cutting the grass and keeping a gravesite and placing flowers on it.] As Christian members of the Body of Christ, our lives should reflect this witness of mercy to those we meet on a daily basis. It is also a time to reawaken our conscience to a world faced by poverty (both material and spiritual) and to enter more deeply into the heart of the Gospel by helping others experience the mercy of God. May the Year of Mercy be an opportunity for each of us to discover anew the corporal works of mercy and lead others to the one who came to reveal God’s mercy, Jesus himself. Amber Donaldson/Mobile Journalist for The Valley Catholic Pro-Life advocates pray outside the abortion facility in downtown McAllen during the annual Pro-Life March in 2015. This year’s march is set for Jan. 30. Pro-Life, continued from pg. 1 Mexico, continued from pg. 1 believers and nonbelievers and commit us to the construction of a just Mexico, with solidarity, reconciliation and peace,” the statement said. Father Oscar Enriquez, parish priest and director of the Paso del Norte Human Rights Center in Ciudad Juarez, told Catholic News Service that Juarez is often seen as an example of overcoming extreme violence. “The pope Works of Mercy, continued from pg. 5 bodies of the dead. [Examples: Attending funerals and wakes and by helping to provide funeral meals as well as by the treatment of cemeteries with faith well and shares it.” Martinez lost his left eye and had a toe amputated due to complications from diabetes but remains active. He thanks his involvement in the jail ministry for his mobility. “If it weren’t for this ministry, I would be in a wheelchair,” he said. His illness, he said, has taught him a hard lesson in obedience. “It wasn’t the diabetes that did this to me,” Martinez said. “I could have overcome this diabetes if I had been obedient to my doctor about my medications and diet when I was first diagnosed. I wouldn’t be in this condition if I had done what I was told. “My disobedience to the voice of God by way of the doctor is what caused this. … Our spiritual life is the same – God asks one thing of us and we do the opposite. We know something is bad for us, but we still do it.” Martinez, a native of Mathis, Texas, was recently honored as the Volunteer of the Year at the Willacy County Regional Detention Facility and at the Willacy County State Jail by the staff and administration of these facilities. “Before I met the Lord, I made a lot of mistakes, but by the grace of God, I had never set foot in a jail,” he said. “What the Lord has taught me is that no matter where they come from, no matter what their mistakes are, whether they are in this country legally or illegally, we all make mistakes, but we are all the children of God.” God’s life. “We are all diminished when somebody dies, we are all diminished when somebody has violence acted upon them.” The annual march was held in downtown McAllen for the first time in 2013 at the prompting of Father James C. Erving, the Oblate priest who served as the director of the Respect Life Apostolate at the time. Father Erving, who died in March 2014, wanted the event held in the public square so that the message of life could reach a greater audience and a secular audience. Father Flores has continued the tradition, advocating the case for life in a public setting. “There is a sense that our faith is something that is celebrated behind church doors and behind closed doors in my room but really our faith is something that is called to be very public and it is called to be something that inspires those who witness it,” he said. “We need to share the message that God is not a God who is out to get you, that God is not out here to bring you down but that God is here to show you the beauty of where life is to give people that hope. “And even though there are pregnancies that are not planned for, even though there are circumstances that have led to this point, God is able to intervene in our lives and transform our lives and transform the lives of our children.” La Posada Providencia Hands & Hearts Brunch and Auction Saturday, Feb. 6, 2016 La Sierra Event Center in Harlingen Advance tickets are $40 per person or $45 at the door (956) 399-3826 or via email at [email protected]